Do you remember when pain of a broken relationship was so deep that you thought you would never heal, find love and move on? But you did.

Do you remember when you thought that you would never face anyone again because of an embarrassing moment in which you almost lost your reputation? But you did.

Do you remember when you struggled with your weight and you thought that you would never lose it? But you did.

Do you remember when you missed that crucial grade and you thought that you would never become somebody? But you did.

7 Key Steps to Unshakable Confidence © 2004 By Steve Brunkhorst http://www.AchieveEzine.com

Do you remember that day? Perhaps it was your first job interview. Perhaps you were speaking to a group for first time. Maybe you were starting a challenging new career or meeting a special person for first time. Your throat became dry and your knees wanted to shake.

You were about to leave a place of mental and emotional safety. You were putting your skills on line and taking a risk. If you were successful, there could be great reward. However, self-doubt was trying to discourage you.

Confidence is essential in our lives; without it, we will not make first attempt to do what we really want. Confidence allows us to move forward despite temporary discouragement. So where does confidence come from, and how can we become and remain confident? Here are seven actions that will help to develop unshakable confidence.

1. Expand Your Knowledge

Gaining new skills for any endeavor - personal or career - is first step toward confidence. Identify key areas where you need more confidence to be successful. Then expand your knowledge by taking courses, reading books, and attending learning events. Tele-classes are enjoyable and convenient for learning and discussing ideas with a peer group. Continuous learning is essential for maintaining a high level of confidence.

2. Experience Small Successes

Confidence also comes from experiencing small daily successes. They are like rewards for putting knowledge into action. They may not be final goal. Yet they are important. Even a pat on back from a colleague or a compliment for a job well done will boost a person's level of confidence. Keep track of each small success you experience. You will begin to feel your confidence grow day by day.

3. Exercise Passionate Faith