Watch Your Language

Written by Sue Dyson


*************************************** Watch Your Language! by Sue Dyson *************************************** I am about to present to you a very valuable and often overlooked key to success. What we say about ourselves will determine how we are, or what we shall become. You may have heard it over and over again, but it bears repeating. Just because we have read something doesn’t mean we know it, let alone have integrated it into our lives.

Our thoughts become our words become our actions become our reality. It’s that simple. And that complex.

Saying something negative about yourself does two things.

1. You come to believe it and thus, live it

And

2. It confusesrepparttar heck out ofrepparttar 101777 Universe - especially if you have been expressing your desire forrepparttar 101778 opposite.

Our success depends on our increasing awareness of how we speak about ourselves. Rather than expressing a negative thought that pops up, consider replacing it with a positive affirmation.

Let me give you 6 examples where this can make a difference. You may laugh at some of these, but I think you’ll getrepparttar 101779 idea!

Break Up and Break Even!

Written by Nevine Al Seidi


Sometimes, we find ourselves trapped in an obligatory break up, all of a sudden. With little time on our hand, we are needed to act swiftly to break up and break clean. Scenarios ranging fromrepparttar he-cheated-on-me saga torepparttar 101776 he-won't-commit fill pages of newspapers daily and fill our heads with complete misery. Learning to break up atrepparttar 101777 right moment can save your face and social grace. On breaking up, I amrepparttar 101778 ultimate authority, having dumped more than 90 men in 25 years of dating without getting dumped once (serious). Yes, I can claim safely that I amrepparttar 101779 Ivana of breaking up and breaking even.

The first rule of thumb of breaking up is to selectrepparttar 101780 appropriate moment (do not procrastinate or you will look pathetic). The second is to deviserepparttar 101781 manner of breakup aroundrepparttar 101782 reason for breakup - ( you do not slash your wrists a la Diana as a way out when you find you were cheated upon).Andrepparttar 101783 last, not least rule , is to break even by breaking up. How? Say that what you have given that bloke is a love to talk about tillrepparttar 101784 day he dies; take it back:repparttar 101785 love letters,repparttar 101786 poems andrepparttar 101787 precious gifts. Suppose he ran away with a younger woman; date a younger man IMMEDIATELY, without giving him a hint it is about revenge. He went back to his Ex? Go back to your Ex, any Ex, innocently. Breaking even is not exactly revenge; it is settingrepparttar 101788 records straight and rescuing your self-esteem .No matter what you choose to do, it should never look like breaking even!

Every relationship warrants its own break up story. But here there are ways to break his heart while you mend yours:

· You suddenly despise him when he said you wererepparttar 101789 woman who loved him best in 40 years.

· You immediately act healthy and in control as if he never mattered. He should not really.

· You ‘command' he gives you everything you gave him (letters, love notes, pics and precious gifts); and since you cannot take back love making, pretend it never really touched you. You cannot take back your love? You can un-love.

· You are super nice to his friends and refrain from talking about him saying : ‘he is not worthrepparttar 101790 mention', or: ‘a fiasco he was; but I don't think I was true either', better still: ‘c'mon , a crush is a crush is a crush!'

· Never Ever fight over him with another woman - EVER! Just give him up to her. This isrepparttar 101791 surest way she will dump him.

· Never ever let him see your tears over him. Never even cry in private!

· Treat yourselfrepparttar 101792 best way you can, from having a total make over to having fun.

· Celebraterepparttar 101793 break-up by inviting mutual friends and strangers to a "Nest-Clearing" party; he was not living with you? Then, "Chest-cleaning" !

· He cheated on you? Pretend you are cheating on him without knowing what he was up to - a winner tactic!

· He will not marry you? Get engaged in one month (fake it until you make it) to someone brand new.

· He badmouthed you with his friends? Date one of them (without having sex), pretending not to have heard ofrepparttar 101794 tresspass.

· He went out with your friend? Call her and confide your sexual fantasies about his best friend allrepparttar 101795 time he is sleeping with you. Ask for her advice without sounding suspicious of her. A few days later, leave him a note saying: " I have to leave you without hurting you".

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