Train Your ManWritten by David Wood
For ladies I work on premise that your man is willing to give you everything you want; that he wants to make you happy, if only he is shown how. If this is a stretch for you, I suggest your belief is main thing standing between you and a wonderful relationship. When a man does not meet your expectation, you may tend to contract or withdraw. Resentment can creep in and your man pays in end - either subtly or directly. A cycle can form where you may "cut him down" more often than you "build him up". My coaching and articles will centre around helping you to: 1) See you actually can have everything you want from your relationship 2) Get clear on exactly what you want 3) Show your man how to give you what you want, in such a way that you both win! These steps often require a shift in thinking, and giving up some behavioural habits. You will need to take responsibility for your relationship - often an uncomfortable place to stand. The result is a positive cycle where he enjoys giving you what you want - wins from it - rather than acting out of obligation or fear. This leaves you radiantly happy, which in turn makes an ENORMOUS difference to his life. Ask yourself – if life was a fairytale, and I really could have a perfect relationship, what would that look like? What THREE things could I have more of in this relationship that make me incredibly happy?
| | Power of VisionWritten by David Wood
You've probably heard a lot about creating a vision, and possibly affirmations. Is it all new-age mumbo jumbo? I say no. If we really want to create something new in life, it simply makes sense to work out what that is, and then create a structure to constantly remind yourself. To keep it real. To keep you inspired, motivated. I'm happy to be able to share this great article from a client of mine which suggests how to do just that..... 'EACH DAY DREAM A LITTLE DREAM... ..even if it is only in your head it will soon be in your life. A while back I was focused on all that was lacking in my life. My focus each morning as I woke seemed to gravitate to all I didn't have and all I didn't want to have happen. I struggled and struggled until one day it hit me. I was separated from what I truly desired in life in fact I didn't even know what I wanted I had no vision - nothing to desire. You see those feelings of stress and worries were a sign. A sign letting me know that what I was focussed on was not bringing me peace in my life. This focus on lack in my life was zapping me of energy needed to be creative and to seize opportunities that lay before me. The day I made that agreement with myself was day I realized that I had a choice in where I place my focus. When my focus was on what I was lacking I would feel stress and worry where as when my focus was on what I desired I felt feelings of peace within myself. This taught me importance of having a vision. For when I continued to focus on my dreams and picture those dreams coming true in my life feeling of peace evolved into excitement and passion to seize moment I had in front of me. When we are focused on our dreams we have no room in our minds for thoughts of worry. Our vision creates positive thoughts, and therefore positive feelings. Your vision is your guide that will lead you to all that is possible in life. All a vision needs is some nurturing and it will then nurture you.
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