The Girl in My College

Written by DD Phil


Love. What is it?repparttar sweet sayings?repparttar 130033 kisses?repparttar 130034 romance? or maybe,repparttar 130035 sex? No; it is not in any of these! And mind you, it is not deceit either. Or promises made and not kept. Yes. I call it sincerity and understanding.

There are girls and there are girls. Or I should say, there are women and there are women. For not all women are alike. Some are good while some are bad. Some are there to shorten men’s life-span, while some are not. I know of a woman who after signing a divorce note without a cause made her husband to commit suicide. Pity him.

I have never seen anyone so pretty asrepparttar 130036 girl in my college. No. Not in my life. No girl can compare with her. Very intelligent. Modest in her dressing. Havingrepparttar 130037 look of an innocent girl who has never known any evil. Maybe I should call her an “angel,” but I know angels do not fall down to date men on earth. It has never happened in history and would not happen inrepparttar 130038 future. Not because men are evil, but becauserepparttar 130039 world is corrupt. I would have loved to date an angel that would prolong my life-span. But I wonder if angels still walk to tread on earth.

Her character radiatesrepparttar 130040 look of a good future house-wife. She is a girl every man would like to date. I’ve never thought it for once that I would like to date a girl at my early age.

Shy. Confused. That is exactlyrepparttar 130041 way I felt each time I asked her to come and see me. And each time, I blame myself after she leaves my room inrepparttar 130042 hostel. I never know how to tell her that I love her. I ask myself a question so as to delay my approach for her. What if she has a guy dating her? What will be her response to me? And if not, I should be fast getting her. For I know what pride it will be if she eventually becomes mine.

My stay inrepparttar 130043 college would have ended up my life—cultists and lecturers were desperate to have her. But thank God, I did not die!

My heart sang for joy when she said “yes” to my proposal. I felt like giving her a hug and a kiss to express my joy to her. In fact it was my happiest day. Atrepparttar 130044 moment I feltrepparttar 130045 world has come to my feet.

I stand, staring at her with a great passion. The hope came that one day we would still get married. Oh what a great dream! For that is what I’ve always wanted as a young man. To get a girl that will make me feel proud. They call us best couples on campus. Everyone envies us. We always have fabulous time together. Taking good care of each other. She is a girl I would say, I really enjoyed a relationship with. We hanged out most ofrepparttar 130046 time. In fact, it was fun and romantic. If every relationship would be like that, then there will be no need for separation and divorce. I hate those words. I wish I could have those words erased out of my dictionary.

It is not as easy as I thought, to disclose it to my parents. Even relatives. Everyone advised me to be careful inrepparttar 130047 relationship. Especially my mom who never wanted anyone to hurt my feelings. My friends got angry each time they saw both of us. I took it to be jealousy.

Is your soulmate an idiot?

Written by Sam Stevens


Lately, I think people are investing too much energy inrepparttar idea that they "must find their soulmate." Where do we get this idea that we are somehow not complete unless we are connected to another person? What are you? An electrical outlet waiting for a plug, so you can finally light uprepparttar 130032 world? Frankly, when I hearrepparttar 130033 word "soulmate" I tend to give a little shudder, especially when I think about some ofrepparttar 130034 people in my past that I have considered to be my soulmates. Quite frankly, most of my soulmates were idiots! The Buddha would say that they were also my teachers -- people I have known in a previous life time who have come back in this lifetime to teach me a lesson. Boy did they, but unfortunately, it sometimes takes several soul mates to teach us just one lesson. (Hint, hint -- I thinkrepparttar 130035 lesson is supposed to be about "letting go" and stop trying to control, or own people -- a common problem in this society.) Most people think that they have found their soulmate just because they feel a strong connection to a person. Unfortunately, that connection may not have anything to do with spirituality at all. It is amazing how lust can convince us that we are spiritually connected to a person. The person may just seem familiar, because they remind you of an ex boyfriend, a parent, or even someone who molested you as a child. I also haterepparttar 130036 wayrepparttar 130037 term soulmate is often used by people as an excuse to stay in a relationship where they are clearly being abused ...halfrepparttar 130038 timerepparttar 130039 abuser is usingrepparttar 130040 concept ofrepparttar 130041 soulmate as blackmail: "but you have to take this crap from me! You're beholden to me. I knew you in another life!" You can tell your soulmate is an idiot, if he left you eight months ago and you feel like he is still hanging around in your aura, or even worse, visiting you in dreams, or plaguing you with unwanted thoughts like "this was really all your fault, you know." Time to evict this tenant from your cosmic field.

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