Program your Mind with Confidence--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Let's go back a few decades in time. Pavlov a russian scientist made some startling discoveries. His experiment involved dogs hearing a bell ring prior to being feed. After a few days, Pavlov rang bell without providing any food. However dogs were drooling and looking for food. They had associated food with sound of bell. They were conditioned to desire and drool for food with simple ring of a bell.
Of course people are not like dogs. However same principle can be applied to us.
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Anchors allow you to bring up certain emotions on command of an association.
Basically, you can create a trigger which confidence can be associated to.
Here are steps to bring confidence in your life:
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Step 1: Select a Trigger Device NLP trainers recommend either sqeezing your wrist or pulling middle finger of your left hand. Choose something that does not get lost with daily activities of your hands. Make it unique. It is important that you perform trigger excalty same way each time or it will not work.
Optional Step: Get some Relaxing Music This one is not necessary but it will help you relax. If you have trouble relaxing then I recommend music because excerises will have little effect on you.
It should be soft music without lyrics. "Sensual Massage" or "Winds in Wood" are good examples.
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Step 2: Get Yourself in a Relaxed State Listen to music or to your heart beat. Relax....Take a few minutes to get yourself in that state.
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Step 3: Bring up Strong Feelings of Confidence Remember a time when you accomplished something big and felt great. Maybe you got a great time for a 10km run. Or you won that big important game. Or you made that gigantic sale. Or you got that job where you beat out 20 other candidates.