Power Keys For Eliminating Stress From Your Life by Alan Tutt http://www.KeysToPower.comStress comes from only 2 sources. Either believing that you are not capable of performing as required, or being uncomfortable in your present surroundings.
I know there are many who will disagree with me, but
bottom line is that any other explanation on
cause of stress will boil down to one of these two reasons.
Knowing this gives us several options in resolving our need to eliminate stress from our lives. I'm sure you've heard that not all stress is bad, or that we need a certain amount of stress just to stay alive, and other things along these lines. The stress I'm talking about in this article is
excess stress that we don't need, and that can cause problems for us.
Many of us are not aware of how much stress we are carrying around with us. There are so few people who actually have eliminated all excess stress from their lives that for all practical purposes we can say they don't exist. If you feel as though you are one of these rare people, then congratulations! But even so, examine what I'm about to cover and see if maybe you can eliminate a little more stress and reach a healthier state of being.
Let's take a look at
easier of
two situations, being uncomfortable with your surroundings. This could be physical discomfort, or emotional discomfort. Physical discomfort refers to being too hot, too cold, sitting on too hard a surface, and that kind of thing.
I've found that in many cases,
discomfort stems from resisting
situation and not accepting it. I've never liked being too cold, but when I've consciously accepted it and stopped resisting
cold, then I became much more comfortable with it. The same is true in situations that are too hot for my preferences, as well as practically every other physical discomfort that I've tested this theory with. Resistance equals pain, and acceptance will eliminate much of
discomfort.
Stress that results from physical discomfort can be eliminated by either accepting
situation, or by changing it. The famous Serenity Prayer stems from this idea. If you can change something you don't like, then change it. If you cannot change it, then accept it.
Emotional discomfort can be alleviated much
same way. Emotional discomfort comes as a result of someone acting or reacting to you in a manner that you don't want to accept. Criticism, blame, hatred, jealousy, guilt, and other harmful words are usually not welcome, appreciated, nor accepted.