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If someone says that we are inferior, or that we are wrong in some fundamental way, we tend to take that as a judgment of ourselves. Most of
time, however, it is more of a judgment of
person who is telling us these things.
If you were to translate every negative word against you into a statement against
person speaking, then you will eliminate a great deal of emotional discomfort and
stress that comes from that.
With everything that is said to you, you have a choice whether there is any merit to
statement or not. If there is merit, and there is an opportunity to improve yourself in a way that you wish to improve, then by all means use
information to make a positive change. And if there is no merit to what is said, then release it as
words of a misguided individual.
So, stress from discomfort can be mostly eliminated by simply not resisting
uncomfortable situation, but rather accepting it for what it is. If you watch animals such as cats or dogs, you'll see that they really don't care what kind of surface they lie upon, they can sleep practically anywhere. That's because they do not resist
surface.
As Bruce Lee once said, "Be like water, my friend. Water molds itself to any environment in which it finds itself." This is one of
primary secrets to eliminating stress.
The other major cause of stress is thinking that you're not capable of handling a required situation. If this is indeed
case, then you are in trouble. But rarely is this
true case. Rather, it is much more likely that you can indeed handle
situation and you just don't realize it.
There are two components to this scenario that can eliminate much of your stress. Either you are misjudging
situation and you are indeed capable of handling it, or you are not really required to handle
situation as you think you must.
Since we cannot change our capabilities in
present time, but only by working on those capabilities over time, whether we can or cannot handle
situation in front of us is immaterial. All we can do is give it our best and hope that it will work out.
And if we do give it our best, then we will succeed much more often than if we only give it a portion of our abilities.
Giving each situation that presents itself our best will usually result in our abilities getting stronger and our capabilities growing larger in scope.

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