Midlife Transition: Women & Dreams

Written by Susan Dunn, M.A.


Midlife transition is full of challenges. One thing you tend to do is start thinking about dreams. If you look back, you may wonder what happened to your dreams. If you look ahead, you may thinkrepparttar time has passed.

When you stop to reconsiderrepparttar 131244 dreams of your youth,repparttar 131245 dreams fromrepparttar 131246 first part of your life, make a list of them and then ask yourself these questions:

1. Have you outgrown this dream? Does it no longer suit you? 2. Who was this dream for? Was it really for you, or was it for parents, peers, bosses, spouse or someone else? 3. Did one of these dreams come true and turn out to be a nightmare? 4. Did having this dream come true turn out to be transitory? 5. Did having this dream come true turn out to be very different from what you expected?

Intuition

Written by Susan Dunn


In recent years intuition has emerged from obscurity, even suspicion, to be honored asrepparttar valuable life tool that it is.

What exactly is intuition? According to Merriam-Webster it's quick and ready insight; immediate apprehension or cognition;repparttar 131243 power or faculty of attaining to direct knowledge or cognition without evident rational thought and inference.

According to Intuition magazine online, it's a "natural mental faculty, a key element inrepparttar 131244 creative process, a means of discovery, problem solving, and decision making."

Remember those math problems you gotrepparttar 131245 correct answer for, but you didn't get full credit because you couldn't show your work?

Intuition isn't some mystical talent; it's something we all have and can develop more of.

Where does intuition come from?

In their book, _A General Theory of Love, authors Drs. Lewis, Amini, and Lannon agree that we acquire complicated knowledge we can't describe, explain, or recognize.

They cite researchers Knowlton, Mangels, and Squire, who asked subjects to predictrepparttar 131246 weather in a simple computer model. They designedrepparttar 131247 experiment so that even thoughrepparttar 131248 cues looked worthless they did relate torepparttar 131249 outcome butrepparttar 131250 relationship between cues and effects it was way too difficult for logic to unravel in evenrepparttar 131251 smartest person.

No one was able to figure it out, but that still got better at this system they couldn't understand or describe! After just 50 trials,repparttar 131252 average subject was right 70% ofrepparttar 131253 time, which means some were doing far better than that. What they were doing was gradually developing a feel forrepparttar 131254 situation, gettingrepparttar 131255 gist of it.

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