Life by Design

Written by Nancy O'Brien


Are you ready to create your life by design? Of course, you say, but just how do I do that? Aren'trepparttar circumstances of my life simplyrepparttar 123717 ways things are? How do I influence what my life looks like? Aren't you someone who always says it is important to accept life exactly as it is? This, of course, is one ofrepparttar 123718 divine paradoxes ofrepparttar 123719 universe. To be at peace, I must accept and embracerepparttar 123720 current conditions and circumstances of my life. But that does not mean I lackrepparttar 123721 power to create an entirely new and different set of circumstances. In truth, I am already creating my life experience moment by moment. The question is, am I doing this consciously or unconsciously? The difference between living life by design and life by default is inrepparttar 123722 power of focus and attention. Below are Seven Steps to Becoming a Conscious Creator. Use them to create your life by design.

Happy Creating!

1. Create a vision for yourself and your life.

Imagine having a blank canvas on which to paint your perfect life. Then paint that picture in your mind and become intimate with its every detail. Pour outrepparttar 123723 details in a journal or create a collage. Bring all your senses into this picture. See it, speak it, touch it, hear it and smell it. Spend at least 17 seconds on this image each day.

2. Spend time focusing on your desires.

Once you are aware of your deepest desires, you must keep them alive in your consciousness. You do this simply by paying attention to them. Universal law dictates that we experience whatever we focus upon. Do not let your mind stray to appearances. Keep your attention focused squarely upon your desires. 3. Fuel your desires with intention. The most effective use ofrepparttar 123724 will is applying it to your mind. Once you are clear what it is you want and are paying attention to it, your next step is to clearly intend its creation. The first step is like startingrepparttar 123725 car andrepparttar 123726 second is putting it into gear. Intention is stepping onrepparttar 123727 gas. Look clearly at your vision and say, "I intend to have this."

Do Your Best to Better Someone Else's

Written by Martin Avis


If you do your best, you can't go far wrong.

So said out grandparents and our parents. Boy were they wrong!

Maybe inrepparttar jobs-for-life mentality ofrepparttar 123716 era beforerepparttar 123717 1980's such attitudes were laudable. Keep your nose clean, put in a good day's work and retire after 40 years with a pension and a hacking cough.

The business world is very different today. Nowadays, your performance isn't measured against your own personal best, you are measured against your peers.

Who cares if you wroterepparttar 123718 best report of your life, or just gaverepparttar 123719 best presentation of your career? Nobody. All that matters isrepparttar 123720 result. If Joe can write a better report or Sam can give a better presentation, they will pretty soon have your job.

Is that cut-throat? You bet it is. Sincerepparttar 123721 Regan years inrepparttar 123722 U.S. andrepparttar 123723 Thatcher years inrepparttar 123724 U.K., business has changed fromrepparttar 123725 corporate family to Darwinian evolution. Onlyrepparttar 123726 fittest survive.

Now, it isn't enough to just turn up and put in a good day's work. You have to make a 'positive contribution' as well.

How can you do that without sufferingrepparttar 123727 fate of so many rising stars: executive burnout?

Stress wasrepparttar 123728 curse ofrepparttar 123729 nineties and is getting worse inrepparttar 123730 noughts. But stress is just an inability to deal with a situation. It can be beaten. You just have to haverepparttar 123731 right tools in your armory to fight it back.

Here are five tools that you can use right now. They are not industry or job-specific. Anyone can use them, but you do have to put inrepparttar 123732 effort to learn.

Any tool, in any job, feels awkward and unwieldy when you first pick it up. These are no different. But practice and application will pretty soon make them all old friends. They will keep you sane and light your way to success.

1. Time and self management.

This is an old chestnut, but in truth, time management has never been so important. The person who can effectively complete six jobs in a day will always rise higher thanrepparttar 123733 one who can only complete five.

Often time management is a misnomer. What needs managing is ourselves. Our attitudes arerepparttar 123734 time wasters, not time itself.

Readrepparttar 123735 books, learnrepparttar 123736 skills and make every second of your life count.

2. Positive mental attitude.

"Whether you believe you can, or believe you can't, you are right."

What isrepparttar 123737 point in self-doubt? It is a self- fulfilling prophesy. Far better to believe in yourself and push yourself to achieve higher and greater things, than to fail for lack of trying.

There are two words you should erase from your vocabulary: can't and might.

'I can't do it' and 'I might do it' both usually mean 'I won't do it.'

You can. you should and you will.

3. Insatiable curiosity.

The old way of cocooning yourself in a little world of your own and lettingrepparttar 123738 rest ofrepparttar 123739 office/company get on with their own tasks must become extinct in your life.

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