Whether it's buying a car, asking for a pay rise, saying 'no' to a friend or renting an apartment - at some stage in our lives we all are going to need to know how to negotiate. Yet, so few of us know
basic skills before embarking on life changing purchases or decisions! These 8 keys will assist you negotiate well.1. Know
outcome you want. Do you want a win-win outcome where both parties benefit? Or a win-lose outcome where someone (presumably
other party) is not happy with
result?
It is important you know what type of outcome you want because that will affect
long term relationship you have with
other party. Win-win outcomes are beneficial where you have an ongoing relationship. For example, when you negotiate a pay rise, you don't want your boss to feel he/she is
'loser'. However, if you are buying a car from a car lot, you may not be so concerned about whether
car salesperson feels as though they 'won' in
negotiation!
2. Know your 'position'. How important is this deal to you? How much do you need it? Could you walk away from
deal? What alternatives do you have? What is your "bottom line" and what (if anything) are you prepared to concede? You should not start negotiating until you have thought through and considered all of
consequences for all of
different outcomes that may eventuate.
3. Know your counterpart's 'position'. Try to work out what is important to them in
deal. When you know that you have an advantage. Try not to reveal what is important to you! Keep a poker face and play your cards close to your chest.
4. Work out different scenarios ahead of time. Being caught by surprise will NOT strengthen your position! Think through all
different possibilities which may eventuate and plan for each and every one of them. It is useful to brainstorm and write down on a piece of paper what could possibly happen. For example, if they said, "XYZ" - I would respond with, "ABC". This way you can be prepared for just about anything that may happen.
5. Know yourself. Know your own weaknesses. If you are a more gentle personality your natural aversion to conflict may toss you into concessions that aren't necessary! If this is you, learn about yourself and take counter action. If you are overly stubborn and never give way to minor points, know this about yourself. Your stubbornness, holding out for 100% your own way, may cause you to lose a really great deal!