Dealing With Difficult PeopleWritten by Judi Singleton
When we bang against a difficult person then It may cause us to lose our center. We may come across them in our own families,our customers in our workplace, a boss, just people who wait on us in a store, or they may even be ourselves. What you have here is a people problem. The solution comes somewhere between what you have and what you want. When we bang against a difficult person then It may cause us to lose our center. We may come across them in our own families,our customers in our workplace, a boss, just people who wait on us in a store, or they may even be ourselves. What you have here is a people problem. The solution comes somewhere between what you have and what you want. Usually person we are trying to deal with who we find difficult does not see themselves as difficult. Sometimes we can deal with this person by avoiding them altogether like I go to Safeway and I know two of checkers there are unpleasant people so I just avoid going through their lines. Or another example might be like driver who yells at you in traffic. Ask yourself how important is this? Let it go in scheme of things it is not worth getting upset about. But what if these people are in our own family or our boss or coworker then this is not a choice. We then perhaps have only option of changing ourselves. We already know that we cannot change other people. 1) We are not always willing to change ourselves to meet situation. We say to ourselves why should I be one to change? Well, if you are wise and do not want to go through life getting angry and upset each time you have to deal with this person then you will change or continue being upset when you have to deal with this person. 2.) We can decide to just tolerate them. This does not work to well as people can sense that you are just putting up with them and they react to your energy. They are even more difficult. This kind of avoidance then only postpones dialoge that might resolve situation. Confrontation then comes after a lot of built up emotion and your chances of communicating will deminish. You end up spending a lot of your precious time and energy on a situation that is no win for anyone, you could be spending this time is some productive manner.
| | The First book of Effective Letters & Forms for your Collection AgencyWritten by Michelle Dunn
Where can I find letters and forms to use for my Collection Agency? Right here! Finally, a book of letters and forms specific to Collection Agencies! When you buy The First Book of Effective Collection Agency LETTERS & FORMS, you will have tools you need to create and use debt collection letters effectively for your agency. Included in this book are collection agency letters and forms that you can use as is or modify to suit your needs, information on letter compliance for collection agencies, samples of forms, information on FDCPA and more. This book was created as a companion to How to Make Money Collecting Money, Starting a Collection Agency I have had so many people ask me where they can find such letters and forms that I had to provide you with this information. There are many books written with letters, forms and contracts but they are for creditors and do not focus on Collection Agencies. I created this book so you could have some examples of letters agencies successfully use. This books is a guide for you to create or modify your debt collection letters to be more effective and help you collect more money. This book was not written or designed to provide legal advice, but as a guide to help you collect more money using letters and forms.
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