Business: Dealing With Difficult People

Dealing With Difficult People

Written by Judi Singleton

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3) I think there is a third choice here. Try in your mind to switch places with this person. Turn repparttar

situation around and ask yourself how you would feel if you were this person. After you have rehearshed this in your mind for a while and come to a place of compassion then and only then approach this person and ask them why they act as they do. If there answer does not make sense to you keep asking questions until you understand what they are saying. In other words put yourself in there place and treat them as you would like to be treated. Here are some step by step ways to approach repparttar 137541

situation. A. Approach repparttar 137542

person as if you expect them to want resolve. B. Listen to what they have to say and how they feel, put your own feeling aside this is hard to do since most of us want to attack back or run away from conflict. Cl Next acknowledge repparttar 137543

other person feelings. Come from repparttar 137544

heart and not repparttar 137545

head. Use language like "You really sound hurt about this" Or "this really makes you angry doesn't it" this kind of dialogue has to be authentic if it is not repparttar 137546

other person will sense it and get even more upset. D. Finally ask open ended questions. "What would you like to see happen here." "If you could resolve this in anyway you had available to you what would you do?" Listen, give repparttar 137547

person your respect and attention. This gets repparttar 137548

situation on problem solving and rather than blaming. If all else fails and sometimes repparttar 137549

best communication fails try taking a break. Continue repparttar 137550

discuss at a later time. Try ageeing to disagree. However, if this is an ongoing problem with a friend or a family member. One has to ask themselves does this relationship enhance my life or does it take away from it. But before you end any of these relationships ask yourself am I dealing with a lot of difficult people? What is my part in all of this? What am I getting from having these people in my life. E) In repparttar 137551

end you can turn tolerating difficult people to appreciating differences.

Judi Singleton is a free lance writer and publisher. She writes ten blogs a week. If you would like to sign up for one of her blogs go here: http://www.motherearthpublishing.com

The First book of Effective Letters & Forms for your Collection Agency

Written by Michelle Dunn

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