Conquer
Five Most Common Fears about Your Wedding CeremonyIt’s safe to say that of all important events in your lifetime, your wedding day is certain to be right up there with those that are most meaningful. And throughout entire wedding day – preparations, ceremony, reception, and wedding night – moment when you recite your wedding vows to each other is most meaningful. It is a time that you will remember forever, exactly as it felt: a sublime, dreamlike fantastical moment, when everyone significant to you is watching as you join in wedlock with most important individual in your life.
Conquering Your Fears
Since this is such a unique and central moment to your romantic life, you’re probably wondering how it is that you’ll make experience better than that 10th grade public-speaking assignment where you blanked out halfway through and fainted in front of all of your peers. Begin by telling yourself that it is perfectly natural to feel nervous when speaking in public. Moreover, not everyone is born with perfect public-speaking skills that accurately demonstrate what they feel in their hearts. However, fortunately for majority of us, these things can be learned.
Of course, being well-prepared and armed with wedding vows you know are absolute best they could possibly be is one of easiest ways to overcome these fears. How do I know? Because home-study course I put together, The Ultimate Wedding Vow Toolkit, has helped hundreds of couples take fear out of their wedding ceremony by giving them tools they need to write truly amazing wedding vows. You can find out more about kit at http://www.weddingvowtoolkit.com.
But beyond that, when you think logically about each of these fears, you’ll realize there is nothing that cannot be overcome with a bit of care, technique, and practice. Let’s take a realistic look at these five incredibly common worries. In a few minutes, you’ll see that none of them are likely to spoil your ceremony.
Common Fear #1: Freezing Up
This is a direct result of being excessively nervous. Therefore, it’s important to come up with some calming techniques that will help you to keep cool. It’s only natural to be a bit nervous. In fact, added rush from being a little on anxious side can actually help you to speak better and with added feeling. The best technique that you can give yourself is breathing. Most often, when we are overly frightened, we either breathe much too quickly or we hold our breath. Therefore, as you’re keeping yourself calm, concentrate on breathing smoothly, neither too fast or too slow, but regularly, in through your nose and out through your mouth. Practice a few times in advance, especially in other situations that you’ve found a bit stressful in past. You’ll be surprised at what an enormous difference something as simple as breathing can do for you.
