The Internet brought a great deal of benefits to our life. Access to a lot of free and useful information is, probably, one of
most important out of them. However, this abandon of free information has also become a problem to some extent. You started to spend a little too much time on
Internet. For you emails, chat rooms, messenger services along with aimless web browsing dominate substantial portion of your workdays. As a result you feel that you are loosing control of your working hours, your productivity is decreasing and you are accomplishing far less in a day than you are capable of. This makes you frustrated, miserable and negative. What to do? How to get out of this mess?According to Brian Tracey, a renowned self-help guru, Principle of control is one of
most important factors of life. This principle ascertains that you feel positive about yourself to
degree to which you feel you are in control of your life. The same way, you feel negative about yourself to
degree to which you feel that you are controlled by external forces.
The thing is if you don’t feel positive about yourself, it would be impossible for you to become successful. This means to become happy and successful you need to regain control of your life. The following suggestions will help you achieve this:
Set Goals
Goals are like road maps. If you are planning to visit a new place and don’t grab a road map of
place with you, most certainly, you will have difficulties in finding
place. A written goal will give you a clear idea of what exactly you would like to achieve. Goals also give you a sense of control over your directions.
Goal should be Specific: I would like to become a better online businessman is not a goal. It’s a mere statement! Goals should have clear, substantiated and detailed target!
Goal should be measurable: I would like to get 100 thousand new visitors to my site within six months is a specific and measurable goal.
Goal should be realistic: I want my site to become like Yahoo! within one year is probably a unrealistic and impossible goal. If your goal is too easy to achieve or an impossible one to reach, you will soon loose interest in it. Make sure that your goal is high but attainable.
Set a deadline: Each of your goals should have specific deadlines for their achievement.
Create a detail plan of action: List every action you have to take in order to achieve a certain goal.
List obstacles: Write down all
obstacles that you might encounter on your way to reach this goal. Each time you overcome an obstacle from your list, you will feel good about yourself. This will work as a motivation for you to continue.
Make Lists
While developing your plan of actions for your goals, make two basic lists, a comprehensive master list and a more specific daily to do list.