Angel to Angel

Written by Skye Thomas


Years ago, my minister spoke to us about how you could solicitrepparttar help of your guardian angels to help with conflict resolution. She told us stories about how she and others had successfully asked their guardian angels to speak torepparttar 126788 enemy's guardian angel. The idea being that when you find yourself in an argumentative situation with someone, that you could request that your guardian angel talk angel to angel with their guardian angel about finding a win-win situation. She gave us examples of times when after asking forrepparttar 126789 angels to help mediaterepparttar 126790 problem, thatrepparttar 126791 other party suddenly softened andrepparttar 126792 solutions began to easily show themselves. As she toldrepparttar 126793 stories of her successes with this approach to problem solving, I began to think about how to use it in my own life.

I'm not much for praying inrepparttar 126794 traditional down on your knees with templed hands approach. I can't concentrate like that. My knees hurt and I pay more attention to keeping my hands in that saintly position and forget to really connect with any form of a higher celestial type being. It works better for me to take out pen and paper and to hand write a letter to my angels. In really thinking through what I want to say inrepparttar 126795 letter, I guess I end up sending out a prayer after all. It's just a different form of prayer. So, when I decided to use my minister's advice about requesting angel to angel intervention for my problems in life, I immediately started writing letters to my angels and sometimes I wroterepparttar 126796 letter directly torepparttar 126797 other person's angel if I could get a 'feel' for which angel was looking after them.

It really worked very nicely. I don't usually have enemies per se, maybe just grumpy coworkers and such, but I did see a softening of spirit and things always got better. Yes, I admitrepparttar 126798 softening may have come from me, but that's not what's important. What matters is thatrepparttar 126799 process served its purpose and peace and harmony was created much easier than before I had started writing torepparttar 126800 angels.

So, if they can help us with bad relationships, then why can't they help us with good ones too? I started usingrepparttar 126801 letters torepparttar 126802 angels to help with my love life. I'm sorry to report thatrepparttar 126803 angels will NOT help your crush fall in love with you. Bah! But they will help someone who's a bit shy but interested feel more comfortable about taking that leap of faith and asking you out. Okay, fair enough. When you just can't findrepparttar 126804 words to tell someone that you care about just how much they mean to you, then try writing it to your guardian angel and asking them to deliverrepparttar 126805 message for you. Again, whether you pray to them or write to them, it forces you to findrepparttar 126806 words to say exactly what it is you want to say. Perhaps that's whererepparttar 126807 magic lies. I don't know, but when I just write to some vague nothingness inrepparttar 126808 sky, then nothing happens. It only works when I'm writing torepparttar 126809 angels. Maybe they're real and maybe they're not, but believing they're real and that they'll help seems to work its magic on me and on my relationships.

Islam in the Workplace - suggested practice for HR personnel

Written by M.Ridha Payne


Muslims now form one ofrepparttar largest religious groups inrepparttar 126787 UK. At a time when great misunderstandings and stereotypes circulaterepparttar 126788 media and society regardingrepparttar 126789 religion, it is crucial for an effort to be made at all levels to go beyond archetypal images and to begin to understand Islam and Muslims.

With a population of approximately 1.5 million Muslims and growing, UK based companies are employing more and more young Muslim men and women. With this increase comes a greater need for HR practitioners to be aware ofrepparttar 126790 respective cultural sensitivities.

As with individuals from any background, if they do not feel comfortable and understood in their office or company, it is likely that they will eventually seek employment elsewhere. In order to maximise retention of young Muslims, it is ever more important therefore, that their sensitivities are kept in mind.

The following information contains basic tips and guidelines for HR staff and others to bear in mind. Please note that these are very generic guidelines. Muslims differ from generation to generation, culture to culture, some are more devout than others and interpretations and practices ofrepparttar 126791 faith are numerous. It may also berepparttar 126792 case thatrepparttar 126793 individual is Muslim by name only and chooses not to practice their religion.

Prayer

A Muslim, both male and female, is expected to pray five times a day. This prayer involves facing Makkah (in Saudi Arabia), usually on a prayer mat or clean surface and reciting prayers which follow a procedure of bowing and prostrating. This typically takes between 5 – 15 minutes depending onrepparttar 126794 individual. Prayer times are calculated according torepparttar 126795 movement ofrepparttar 126796 sun and take place at dawn, midday, late afternoon, dusk and at night.

For Muslims in your company it is a good idea to allocate a neutral space for them to use for their prayers. This can be a dedicated prayer room or simply access to a seldom used office or medical room. Such a space will make your Muslim staff feel at comfort knowing they have somewhere private and clean to say their prayers.

If staff are required to be committed to a desk space at certain times it may be a good idea to agree on allocated times in which they can read their prayers. This may involverepparttar 126797 use of break times.

Friday Prayers

Most Muslim men attendrepparttar 126798 mosque on Friday afternoons for obligatory congregational prayers. Let your staff know you understand their requirements and agree on an extended lunch break and/or allocate their Friday lunch breaks to convenient times. Most mosques conduct prayers at 1.30 p.m. so try to aim for an hour between 1 – 2p.m.

Fasting

Fasting takes places duringrepparttar 126799 month of Ramadan. Ramadan does not correspond neatly to any Gregorian months due to its method of calculation. It changes from year to year by about ten days. The more devout Muslims may also fast on Mondays and Thursdays throughoutrepparttar 126800 year.

Fasting involves abstinence from food, drink, chewing and smoking from dawn till dusk. At dusk, Muslims traditionally break their fast with dates and water before proceeding to eat a meal.

Inrepparttar 126801 workplace it is best to be aware of staff who are fasting as this avoids potential offence ifrepparttar 126802 staff member declines an invite to lunch or to some other function involving food.

Dress

Most Muslim men will be wearing a shirt and tie like their colleagues and very few would challenge a dress code. This is simply because dress is not an area where strict guidelines exist in Islam.

One area Muslim men may clash with company policy is in their wearing of beards. If you have strict guidelines regarding facial hair or follow certain health and hygiene procedures, then it is wise to ensure that potential male Muslim employees are made aware of these procedures. You should also be willing to either compromise on religious grounds or ensure that beard covers are made available.

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