I happened to overhear a conversation
other day between two men…Young man has started learning about real estate investing. He has read books and attended seminars put on by some gurus who make more money selling information about real estate investing than they do investing in real estate BUT at least he is taking
initiative to learn more. This is more than most people will do.
Old man owns his home. Young man wants to buy real estate as an investment….apartment buildings, office buildings…that type stuff. Old man has o experience in this area. During
conversation old man says to young man…"are you doing anymore of that real estate nonsense?"
By "nonsense" I know old man was referring to attending
"get rich quick" type seminars and not a condemnation of real estate investing. BUT it came across as a condemnation of
young man’s process of educating himself about something new...something that could improve his life and
lives of his family.
Unfortunately, you probably have people like that in your life. You may BE a person like that in someone else’s life. People in your "box" don’t want you getting out!
You know
type. Negative about any attempt you might make to improve your life…to be different…to stand out….to be more successful than they are.
I heard a great analogy for this by attending a free investment seminar. I knew this guy would be advocating some risky financial moves but I figured since I was in
seminar giving business myself, that I might be able to learn something useful. I did.
The people you associate with most are probably just like you. You have similar educational backgrounds, families and incomes.. You live in houses and drive cars of similar value. You attend
same church…your kids attend
same schools…you shop in
same stores. You get
idea.