The positive thinker always stays on top of his game , always triumphing in end.He refuses to lose , but if he does lose , he goes after his prize again and again.He does not lose heart when he fails , because he knows that real failure comes when he does not learn from his mistake.

The positive thinker views each day as a new opportunity to make himself and world in which he lives a better place.Being positive minded makes difference if you are going to be sad or happy ,bright or dull , dreary or cheery , productive or non-productive.

This is not simply to do, but when practise regularly it becomes quite natural.This is key to Positive Thinking because what a man thinketh that is what he will become.If you think about small things you will achieve small things , but if you do it other way around you will be surprise at how life can be to you.

At end of day , when you have reconditioned your mind , buy yourself or a friend a gift from WWW.Cafeshops.com/Oceanroc so as to show your apprecation.This can be in form of anything , as long as you it makes you feel good about your self which is reason of this article.Until then peace and I hope that you will put into action what you have just read.

©2000-2003 Nicholas Dixon

What does it take to embrace this “stressful” occurrence in your life and reap benefits?

Part of it depends upon individual’s personal predisposition to change. This is ingrained is us because it comes from how change and ambiguity were handled when we were children. According to Holmes and Rahe, inventors of now-famous stress scale which rates “life change units,” life is 44% more difficult now than it was 50 years ago. This means for all of us there was less change years ago when we were kids, so probably most of us need an adjustment in our predisposition to change.

Changes are exciting when we choose them ourselves, and when we bolster our resilience – our ability to handle change and bounce back from adverse events. Some of things we can do are learning and practicing a positive attitude, having a strong and supportive social network, and working with someone who’s experienced in transitions, such as a coach.

Victoria’s philosophy is “Action from Adversity.” She would add these things to list:

1.Trust your intuition, completely. You’ll know what you need to do with your life while friends and family may not. 2. Never give up. This is an inspirational quote from Winston Churchill - “Never give up. Never. Never. Never.” 3.Be brave. “Change can be scary,” says Victoria. “Bite bullet and go for it. Don’t regret things you haven’t done in life.”

Why “action from adversity?” You must take action. A useful metaphor is a cork in ocean. We’re in middle of our lives, like a cork on ocean. The cork appears to move as a wave passes from left to right, but its position actually never changes other than a slight rotation. In other words, that cork is not going to wash up on shore eventually one day, it’s going to stay right where it is, forever. If you want to get somewhere, you have to TAKE ACTION.

A COACH IS INVALUABLE AT SUCH A TIME

“Completing transition was tough,” says Victoria. “Most of my friends and family wanted me to “get over crash” and “get back to normal” – my “life” as it had been before. I had to keep my determination and resolve, to change my life and keep changing it. I had to find strength to take actions which were very scary, well out of my comfort zone and risky, but which would give my life greater meaning and fulfillment. A coach is invaluable at a time like this.”

THIS ISN’T YOUR DRESS REHEARSAL

“Life isn’t a dress rehearsal,” Victoria tells her clients. “Don’t wait for that wake-up call, make most of your life, NOW.”

IF THE SCRIPT ISN’T MEANT FOR YOU, RE-WRITE IT

You’re star in greatest show on earth, and all world’s your stage!