What Women Should Know About Men, Before Trying to Change Them

Written by Peggy Butler


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5.Rarely will he admit that he’s wrong. But they are, and often.

6.He will NOT ask for directions. No matter how many times he gets lost.

7.He will not express his true feelings, especially inrepparttar presence of other men. To do so is to be seen as a wimp. And most guys would rather lie than be thought of as a Lansy Wansy.

8.He will always maintain some degree of pre-relationship fervor. Moreover, he has to prove that he still has what it takes to attract women, even if he’s 110 and faints atrepparttar 101498 sight of his erection.

9.Under no circumstances will he tolerate disrespect in his own home. No, you do not want to go there. But if you have to, make sure your game plan is tight and you can back up everything you say, and then some.

10. He will insist that HE isrepparttar 101499 boss, even when he is unemployed or a stay-at-home dad who faints atrepparttar 101500 mention ofrepparttar 101501 word housework. When this happens, remind him that relationships are based on a 50-50 partnership, and he is notrepparttar 101502 head foreman in charge.

11. Althoughrepparttar 101503 words orgasm and satisfaction are embedded in their psyche, men will never admit to being lousy in bed. Inrepparttar 101504 event you complain that your needs are not being met, he will reverserepparttar 101505 situation so that you're left wondering who’s right and who’s wrong. Hey no one ever said arguing with a man about his bedroom antics was easy. In fact it’s downright exhausting, especially if he’s convinced he can make a woman drool atrepparttar 101506 mere site of his Magical Tool.

12. He will never tell you he loves you more than five times in front of his friends. So, if he says it twice, you’re lucky indeed.

There you have it,repparttar 101507 average MAN in a nutshell. And if you still haverepparttar 101508 notion to change him, forget it, he already has. Wow! Ain’t love grand?

A freelance writer since 1989, Butler has written for various magazines and Internet publications including Impact Press, Africana.com., TimBook Tu, and The Black World Today. Moreover, Butler who lists collecting 60s memorabilia among her hobbies, writes news, features, sports and entertainment articles, as well as commentaries and humor pieces. Currently, she is a contributor for Theblackmarket.com Website:www.Psbwrite.com


The Top 10 Reasons to Give Us All a Break and Quit Using Your Cell Phone in the Car

Written by Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach


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8.Prior experience with cellular phones has no effect on distraction levels.

9.Risk of collision when using a cell is 4 times higher regardless of age or driving experience ofrepparttar driver and hands-free units offered no safety advantage.

In these studies byrepparttar 101497 University of Toronto,repparttar 101498 driver withrepparttar 101499 cell wasn’t necessarily “at fault,” but it still slowed their ability to avoid a collision caused by someone else.

10.In one analysis of fatal accidents involving cell phone use,repparttar 101500 cell phone-using drivers were all inrepparttar 101501 “striking vehicle.”

That is, they struck something stopped in front of them, or left their lane of traffic and struck a vehicle or object. In these crashes, 75% ofrepparttar 101502 drivers were engaged in conversation, 13% were dialing, and 13% were hanging up. Of those engaged in conversation, a third were using mounted phones inrepparttar 101503 hands-free mode. (Source: Fatal Analysis Reporting System [FARS])

In conclusion, driver error contributes to over 90% of collision inrepparttar 101504 first place. Why compound this with cell phone usage? Andrepparttar 101505 most counter-intuitive part of this data is that it isn’trepparttar 101506 punchingrepparttar 101507 numbers in that causesrepparttar 101508 trouble, butrepparttar 101509 conversation, and that’s hands-free makes no difference.

If you don’t care about yourself, or other adults, keep in mindrepparttar 101510 extreme number of children who die every year in car crashes.

Cell phones are great for productivity and personal safety. Just make sure you aren’t using yours to callrepparttar 101511 EMS and police after a car accident caused byrepparttar 101512 fact you were using it while driving. When they subpoena those cell phone records, make sure they’re clear!

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