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Document everything. Documentation will support you if you ever have to file a complaint. Keep detailed records about
interactions with your boss,
work you are doing, and anything else that may seem important. I once had a boss try to downgrade my appraisal for no other reason than his appraisal had been downgraded and he didn't want me to have a better rating than he. Because I had everything documented, I was able to fight
downgrade and won.
Documenting what you do just makes good sense. It will also help you at
end of
year when you are trying to remember everything you did. Don't expect your boss to remember; even a great boss won't. They have way too much to do. It is up to you to keep detailed records of how you are contributing to
organization.
Everyone is someone's difficult person. You may very well have a personality conflict with your boss. Ask yourself honestly how you are contributing to
relationship with your boss. It does take two to dance. Ask yourself how you are making things worse. This can be hard to look at, but can also give you some insight into your own behavior and how you can remove yourself from
drama. Sometimes, with or without realizing it, we are making
situation worse. Step back and see how you might be doing that and stop. This isn't a matter of giving up or letting
other person win. It is a matter of maintaining your sanity.
Find someone outside of your work environment to talk with. Do not talk with other people at work about what a jerk
boss is. It will get back to her or him. Find someone who can give you an unbiased opinion and help you create a strategy to manage
boss. This will help you to defuse some of your frustration and support you in creating healthy ways to handle
situation.
And remember, you have
power! Don't let anyone take it from you. Control your actions and attitudes. As long as you are in control, you are better able to manage
situation and make
best choices.

Coach Lee, MS is an Int’l Business & Personal Coach with 17 years of corporate management experience. She is a faculty member at the Univ. of Phoenix, a trainer for Coach University, the Int’l Coach Academy & Colorado Free Univ. She is a published writer & quoted as an expert in coaching. She is currently earning a Doctorate Degree in Applied Management & Decision Sciences, specializing in Business Coaching. http://www.coachlee.com