Unemployment Blues: Losing Ourselves

Written by Virginia Bola, PsyD


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STOP IT!

That's a lot easier to say than do, I know. But, it's worth a try. Start by listing all of your positive accomplishments (take your time over this, add items later as you think about them). Anything relating to work is going to be valuable to put in your resume but there is more to life than work so look at other areas too. If your children are not in jail or strung out on drugs, include "good parenting skills" in your list -- you must be doing something right. Include major activities: taking night classes while continuing to work, coaching little league, volunteering for a charity drive, running a household while working full time. When you run out of major areas, start concentrating on smaller items such as cleaningrepparttar house, taking your parents out for a special dinner, losing those 10 pounds which had been bothering you. KEEP ON LISTING until you have pages of positive personal accomplishments over your lifetime, from an A grade in kindergarten to paintingrepparttar 107093 patio last week.

Now comparerepparttar 107094 list of your positives, allrepparttar 107095 things that make you what and who you are,repparttar 107096 things that make you a valuable and unique human being, andrepparttar 107097 one item, no current job, that is your primary negative. There really is no comparison at all, is there? Move your mental focus from those old negative tapes by concentrating on all (and there are a lot) of your positives. Keep repeating and redirecting until habit kicks in and your mental outlook slowly changes.

Your self-esteem will improve, your self-confidence reassert itself, your belief in your own worth blossom. Now you are ready to tacklerepparttar 107098 demands of job search with higher energy and without that baggage you've been hauling around for too, too long.

Virginia Bola operated a rehabilitation company for 20 years, developing innovative job search techniques for disabled workers, while serving as a respected Vocational Expert in Administrative, Civil and Workers' Compensation Courts. Author of an interactive and emotionally supportive workbook, The Wolf at the Door: An Unemployment Survival Manual, and a monthly ezine, The Worker's Edge, she can be reached at http://www.unemploymentblues.com


Age-Proof Your Resume

Written by Virginia Bola, PsyD


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3. Jargon.

You probably have a resume which listsrepparttar duties and responsibilities of each of your prior positions. Re-read those descriptions, concentrating onrepparttar 107092 actual words you have used, especiallyrepparttar 107093 verbs (actions). Do those descriptions date you? Some obvious phrases arerepparttar 107094 old "variety duties" which is now generally called "multi-tasking," and "assisted with" now translates as "customer service." "Typing speed," so ubiquitous thirty years ago is now invariably "keyboarding skills." There are many other less obvious areas. A way to address them is to go torepparttar 107095 newspaper or internet and review a number of job descriptions in your field. Any words or phrases that are unfamiliar to you need to be researched as they may describe a task you have previously performed under a different description. If you cannot findrepparttar 107096 information you seek, check with a library, an employment agency, or someone inrepparttar 107097 field. Ifrepparttar 107098 new phrase fits you, substitute it in your resume and all future applications. If it is important enough to be included in a job description, it deserves your attention and neglectingrepparttar 107099 required investigation may doom your job search efforts.

Your goal is to have a potential employer read your resume and be familiar withrepparttar 107100 terms you use. It is your responsibility to be adaptive, flexible, and avoid being screened out due to inappropriate vocabulary. Don't expect an employer to takerepparttar 107101 time to figure out whether you really haverepparttar 107102 skills being sought. Remember that resumes are used to screen OUT - to reducerepparttar 107103 "possible interview" pile to a manageable size.

When your resume and written applications have been meticulously age-proofed, practicerepparttar 107104 same terminology verbally, with a friend, to be ready for a thoroughly up-to-date self-presentation when that inevitably soon-to-be-scheduled interview arrives.

Virginia Bola operated a rehabilitation company for 20 years, developing innovative job search techniques for disabled workers, while serving as a respected Vocational Expert in Administrative, Civil and Workers' Compensation Courts. Author of an interactive and emotionally supportive workbook, The Wolf at the Door: An Unemployment Survival Manual, and a monthly ezine, The Worker's Edge, she can be reached at http://www.unemploymentblues.com


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