For mothers, father of our children is one person we can trust to watch over our babies as closely as we would. We are secure in knowledge of their love for our precious offspring. Dad is only other person in world as fascinated with every nuance and murmur of our babies. He is one person on planet with whom we can indulge our need to brag and carry on about our kid's accomplishments and heartaches ad nauseum ... one who will be just as interested and never yawn in face of our devotion.

Without dads, we wouldn't be moms. I would like to take liberty of thanking them from all our hearts for this honor and for being our partners in this business of raising children. Know how much you are loved and revered, guys! You are our trusted soldiers and we need you more than you will ever realize.

Sometimes, enrolling a child, especially a boy, in a self-defense class works wonders for their self-esteem. They are instructed from first day that they are not to use their newfound talent on another human being, however, inner strength and physical control they learn can do wonders for their shy and reserved natures. Other good avenues for a child in need of a boost are sport lessons, gymnastics or possibly acting or dance classes for a child who expresses a desire to learn arts. The better kids feel about themselves, less likely they are to become victims or bullies in life. A good heart to heart conversation, where child is heard and understood, can also work miracles in healing a wounded spirit.

A child who bullies other children needs to be stopped. They are in desperate need of instruction on caring for and nurturing others. Sometimes, a simple "How would YOU feel ...?" can jar a recessed nerve in their brain to awaken compassion and respect.

Naturally, these lessons are best learned at home but a child who is on his way to becoming a sociopath needs help wherever he can get it.

Approaching parents of a bully is probably one of most unrewarding encounters you might have. They most likely have taught their child to be a bully, albeit unconsciously through a variety of abusive behaviors. I think it is imperative that these parents be made aware of their child's antisocial problem, whether from school or another parent whose kid has become a victim of bully. In so doing, we might indirectly encourage some of these parents and caretakers to reevaluate their family values and environment.