The Hidden Superpowers Of Your Mind

Written by Michael Lee

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The problem withrepparttar people ofrepparttar 126148 modern world is that they are too preoccupied with worries, anxieties, and negative emotions. As a result, they are adversely affecting their state of health.

White lies have become prevalent nowadays in order to easerepparttar 126149 burdens or to persuade others to do things that they thought are unattainable.

There was once a weightlifter who couldn't lift weights in excess of 300 lbs. So his coach devised a clever idea and told him thatrepparttar 126150 barbell he has to carry weighs only 300 lbs. With all his might,repparttar 126151 weightlifter managed to put it above his head. After he puts it down,repparttar 126152 coach told him that he has just lifted 350 lbs. of weight! It's all inrepparttar 126153 mind!

A famous person once said, "Whenever you think you can or you can't, you're right."

If you think you are poor, then you are; unless you properly condition your thoughts torepparttar 126154 positive mindset. I know it's hard to think rich if your environment is not conducive to such way of thinking. Use your imagination then! Visualize your house to be a mansion, your old car to be a limousine,... Well you getrepparttar 126155 picture.

There is absolutely no limit with whatrepparttar 126156 mind can achieve. But you have to combine belief, will power, and action with positive thinking in order to arrive at your intended destination.

Michael Lee is the author of "How To Be A Red Hot Persuasion Wizard," an ebook that reveals powerful secrets on how to get anything you want, including how to fully improve your relationships, explode your profits, win arguments, and magically influence others. Grab a sample chapter at

How to Get Along Better with Your Husband

Written by Susan Dunn, MA Psychology, Emotional Intelligence Coach

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8.Have a discussion with your husband during a quiet time about anger.

Anger is especially detrimental to men’s health. Contrary to popular opinion, it is NOT healthy to vent your anger, nor is it healthy to suppress it. Both of you need to work constantly on valuing being in relationship more than being right. When couples argue allrepparttar time and create a toxic environment, no one wins, and no one’s “right”.

9. Don’t notice so much, listen FORrepparttar 126147 love with your OWN love, and be adamantly and relentlessly forgiving.

Underrepparttar 126148 pressures of today’s lifestyle, we all say things we don’t mean. We get sloppy or we’re in a rush and blurt something out. We forget things. We get irritable.

Catch him doing something right and praiserepparttar 126149 act. Don’t spend so much time onrepparttar 126150 negatives or you’ll cause them to grow. Negotiate your “must haves” and “can’t stands,” and beyond that, be willing to overlook a lot.

If he brings you coffee in bed inrepparttar 126151 morning, you can pick up his underwear offrepparttar 126152 floor occasionally.

10.Express yourself very clearly and very often.

Don’t whine, beg, hint, guess, hope forrepparttar 126153 best, or be tentative. This won’t work. Say specifically what you want, or what you don’t like, and nip it inrepparttar 126154 bud. The longer you wait,repparttar 126155 more of an issue it becomes. This applies particularly to your sexual relationship. Don’t leave him guessing.

One bone of contention among many couples is that if you do it once, it becomes your job forrepparttar 126156 rest of your life. So, if you’re adoring him so much one Sunday afternoon you decide to wait on him while he watchesrepparttar 126157 ball game – becauserepparttar 126158 kids are at Grannies, you’re caught up on your work and rested, you have some spare time, and you’re feeling like a temporary period of doting, explain what you’re doing.

Say, “I’m enjoying waiting on you this afternoon. Of course I can’t do it allrepparttar 126159 time…”

Make your expectations clear, “I’m enjoying waiting on you this afternoon. Please do this for me some time when you feel like it.”

If he does assume this has now becomerepparttar 126160 new routine – and it’s only human nature to press forrepparttar 126161 advantage when you have it – deal with itrepparttar 126162 minute it comes up. Make it clear what your stand is.


Poor communication and low Emotional Intelligence lead to fighting. Fighting can slowly erode your relationship because it’s all too easy to let something slip you wish you hadn’t said, and can’t take back. Or you fail to say something, and thenrepparttar 126163 resentment builds.

Fighting is bad for your health, individually, as a couple, and as a family. Studies have shown that couples tend to get sick after a big fight, because fighting with a loved one lowers your immunity.

Did you need another reason to get along withrepparttar 126164 man you loved enough to marry?

Susan Dunn, MA Psychology, Emotional Intelligence Coach, . I coach around emotional intelligence for success, relationships, transitions, career, resilience, leadership, energy. Internet courses, ebooks. for free ezine.

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