Should I Spy? - 3 Legitimate Motives for Spying on Your Cheating Spouse

Written by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach


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Isnít it likerepparttar game of hide-and-seek we used to play as children? Sometimes there, sometimes gone. At least it is a game, and a game is at least some contact, some involvement. You missrepparttar 122017 connection and try to find someway to maintainrepparttar 122018 ties.

3. Spying on a cheating spouse may be an honest attempt to bring resolution torepparttar 122019 relationship. You want to knowrepparttar 122020 truth. You sense something does not fit. You suspect there is a breach of something. You want to know what you are up against. You are not willing to stand pat and wait.

You are a person of action. You want some sort of movement. You want to get on withrepparttar 122021 relationship. You want to get on with your life.

You know that it is difficult maintaining your sanity when there might be this huge elephant that no one is talking about. You want to knowrepparttar 122022 truth, facerepparttar 122023 truth, deal withrepparttar 122024 truth and be free.



Dr. Huizenga, the "Infidelity Coach," hosts the free Website: http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com , which helps couples deal with emotional infidelity and Extramarital affairs. If you think your spouse is cheating, visit today.


46 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair

Written by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach


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23) Picks fights in order to stomp out ofrepparttar house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time onrepparttar 122016 computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and had to eatrepparttar 122017 dinner you prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls whererepparttar 122018 caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

36) He/she loses attention inrepparttar 122019 activities inrepparttar 122020 home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone inrepparttar 122021 home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper onrepparttar 122022 phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a "glow" about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out ofrepparttar 122023 house.

43) She sleeps with her purse byrepparttar 122024 bed

44) She goes torepparttar 122025 store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

46) The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question inrepparttar 122026 first place.



Dr. Huizenga, the "Infidelity Coach," hosts the free Website: http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com, which helps couples deal with emotional infidelity and Extramarital affairs. If you think your spouse is cheating, visit today.


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