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4. Calculate
risks of saying, "NO." Test
requester's reaction by delaying your final decision on your refusal. Test
system by conducting an informal survey with a control 'Yes' group compared with an experimental 'No' group and assess
consequences.
5. Say, "NO" and duck which is a paraphrase of the, "Do It and Duck" strategy followed by some bureaucrats. This, of course depends on
situation: (a)
stakes are not high, (b) you've noted few results when doing previous tasks, or (c) you're feeling frustrated with repeated and insincere requests.
6. Ask yourself, "What's
worst thing that can happen to you or to others?" This could include
follow-up to
ducking method suggested above. You can always pretend not to hear (a common technique with seniors.)
7. There's always
escape hatch, "I'll consider (or I may be in a different position) AFTER I complete Project X." Be honest by ensuring your inner thoughts are honest. Appear to be honest (recall
survey method in item 4 above) by checking your usage frequency.

Gerry McRae has taught time management techniques in his university courses and at several police colleges. If you're ready for the HOW stuff visit his website at www.UncleMaxSays.com