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The word “Choices” itself gives us clues to
components of good decision-making. I believe that good choices are ones that bring about more ability, more freedom for ourselves and others and ones that allow for continued growth in
situation. Here is a way of looking at your daily choices and seeing how they are or are not contributing to this.
C: Creative A good choice calls on your creativity, your interest in finding solutions that may have been hidden. They actual feel good in your body because you can feel
energy of your creativity being engaged. This in itself is satisfying.
H: Healthy Faced with a decision you can always look at what is
healthiest route both for yourself, for those involved and perhaps even for
future. Healthy native cultures often make decisions based on
impact they may have for generations to come. We have lost that long-range vision and often make short-term decisions that are detrimental to
entire situation further down
road.
O: Open- Opportunities – Objective Does
decision keep you open to possibilities? Does it bring in a larger field of opportunities? Are you able to make it in an objective as opposed to an emotionally reactive state?
I: Inspire Inspiration is usually
outcome of a good decision. Even if
solution is difficult or
next steps hazardous you know that you are doing
best thing possible in
situation. Once more that in itself adds to your self-esteem and raises
energy available in
situation or system.
C: Connections Isolation of some sort is often
by-product of questionable decisions. Whether that isolation is from others, our own selves or our talents and abilities. But when we maintain those basic connections we can more safely navigate
new and unknown territory that some choices bring.
E: Empower At then end of
day do your choices leave you feeling empowered –
author of your own decisions or do you feel caught in a web of confusion. If
later is true it is time to stand back and begin to take a larger view of
issues at hand.
S: Soul Finally choices that both utilize your connection to your soul and serve to support that bond are those that will bear
richest fruit.
Ask yourself – does this choice call on creativity – does it lead to healthy actions that support an open attitude and opportunities that lead to inspiration of some kind – empowering you and others to maintain
soul-
energy –
heart and guidance available in each moment. Choices such as these create energy – not drain it- they feel good to us and at
end of
day we can rest easy knowing that regardless of outcome we have done
best that we can.
We are
authors of our lives and our business. Although we are each within a larger field of forces, history and pressures each of us has at our disposal creative wisdom, connection and creativity that help us navigate
sometimes-chaotic landscape of each day.
“Feel
truth of what you are and at
same moment act. Risk yourself for what you know is right and true.” Fredrick Douglas, escaped slave from an Independence Day speech
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