Relationship-Making

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If inrepparttar end you both decide you have enough in common to pursuerepparttar 102027 relationship further, you will need to negotiate howrepparttar 102028 relationship is actually conducted. You will need to agree, disagree or negotiate to upholdrepparttar 102029 verbalized parameters in your relationship.

I know this probably sounds very unromantic, almost artificial. But believe me, this is howrepparttar 102030 best relationships are created.

The two of you are much better off entering a relationship with your eyes open, knowing what is expected of you, what you can expect in return, what you can count on from your relationship.

This extended conversation allows forrepparttar 102031 absence of power struggle. It fosters harmony and ease of being together. It will giverepparttar 102032 two of yourepparttar 102033 rare opportunity to establish deep intimacy.

Your Relationship Coach, Rinatta Paries www.WhatItTakes.com

(c) Rinatta Paries, 1998-2002. Do you know how to attract your ideal mate? Do you know how to build a fulfilling relationship, or how to reinvent yours to meet your needs? Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries can teach yourepparttar 102034 skills and techniques to attract and sustain long-term, healthy partnerships. Visit www.WhatItTakes.com where you'll find quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine. Become a "true love magnet(tm)!"

With nearly a decade of relationship coaching experience, Master Certified Coach Rinatta Paries works with singles to help them attract their ideal relationship, and helps couples create more love and fulfillment in their existing relationships. Visit her web site at www.WhatItTakes.com or e-mail her at coach@WhatItTakes.com.


Ways to be Romantic

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5. The Gift of Undivided Attention

Couples: Give your partnerrepparttar gift of undivided attention and see if she or he doesn't find thatrepparttar 102026 most romantic thing going.

Singles: Give yourselfrepparttar 102027 gift of your own undivided attention. Take away all ofrepparttar 102028 distractions and be with yourselfrepparttar 102029 way you would want your partner to be with you.

6. Gift of Communication, I

Couples: Men, allow your woman to talk about whatever her heart desires, and listen. Ladies, let your man talk or answer your question without finishing his sentences for him, interrupting him, or moving on torepparttar 102030 next topic. See if this doesn't make sparks fly.

Singles: Either find a person who will listen to yourepparttar 102031 way you need to be heard, or give yourself space and time to listen to your own thoughts and feelings or to journal.

7. Gift of Communication, II

Couples: Ladies, give your manrepparttar 102032 gift of sitting down next to him in silence. No talking allowed. Men, give your ladyrepparttar 102033 gift of talking and sharing from your heart. No closing down, walling up or running away allowed.

Singles: Either silence or open heart, give yourself whichever one you need.

8. A Gift with Interest

Couples: Is your partner into computers, and you don't know a mouse from a monitor? Or is she into gardening, but to you a rose is just a rose? Give your partnerrepparttar 102034 gift of your interest in something that is important to him or her. Go ahead, ask your partner a question about it and seerepparttar 102035 smile light up his or her face.

Singles: Give yourselfrepparttar 102036 gift of time to pursue your important interests. Takerepparttar 102037 time to do something that nourishes you and makes you happy.

9. The Trust

Couples: Ladies, giverepparttar 102038 man in your liferepparttar 102039 gift of trusting him to know how and when to take care of himself and you. Trust that he will dorepparttar 102040 best he can for Valentine's Day. Gentlemen, hold her trust sacred, and learn to listen for subtle requests. Then honor them. The celebration of love will feel good to both of you.

Singles: Today, trust your process and your fate. Today, trust that you too will be loved and cherished by a partner. Today, remember allrepparttar 102041 people who already love and cherish you.

10. A Shower of Words

Couples: Write your loved one a love letter or poem and read it to them on Valentine's Day. Here comerepparttar 102042 tears.

Singles: Write yourself a love letter or poem, exactlyrepparttar 102043 way you would want it written by a lover. Read it to yourself out loud and have Kleenex ready.

Plan to have a happy Valentine's Day!

Your Relationship Coach, Rinatta Paries www.WhatItTakes.com

(c) Rinatta Paries, 1998-2002. Do you know how to attract your ideal mate? Do you know how to build a fulfilling relationship, or how to reinvent yours to meet your needs? Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries can teach yourepparttar 102044 skills and techniques to attract and sustain long-term, healthy partnerships. Visit www.WhatItTakes.com where you'll find quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine. Become a "true love magnet(tm)!"

With nearly a decade of relationship coaching experience, Master Certified Coach Rinatta Paries works with singles to help them attract their ideal relationship, and helps couples create more love and fulfillment in their existing relationships. Visit her web site at www.WhatItTakes.com or e-mail her at coach@WhatItTakes.com.


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