As adults, we face daily choices: take easy way out and just go along for ride, or do best we can do and be best we can be. I am sure every one of us chooses both options several times a day. Let's be conscious of those decisions today.

Potentially, we now have a relationship where we endure each other and live as roommates rather than lovers. It’s norm, most of people around you exist in it so it’s not surprising people feel a little guilty when they begin to want more. Fortunately for those brave souls willing to ask for more we’ve got potential for co-creativity, a phrase coined by Seana McGee and Maurice Taylor in “The New Couple”. This is where relationship manages to evolve beyond power struggle into adulthood and we get back to place where we can ask ourselves what we can give to our partner rather than getting stuck in trying to get our needs met.

It’s not a big deal and skills you need are in no way complicated. Most of us don’t need therapy; we just need strategies that lead to happiness. Take a look at my top tips for some easy to implement solutions. Let me know which one’s work for you, I’d love to hear from you.

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