When people exhibit these jealous rages, they are only destroying relationship they are trying to save. People use jealousy as a legitimate weapon of defense to protect what is rightfully theirs. Jealousy attempts to prevent annihilation of love, but it only helps it along. Experiencing these jealous rages will also further lower your self respect because it causes you to stoop to lowest of acts. It destroys more than just relationship. “Jealousy is invariably a one-sided, bigoted accuser, convinced of his own righteousness and meanness, cruelty and guilt of his victim”. Although jealous person wants to keep relationship intact, intentions of showing these acts of jealousy are to maliciously hurt other person. Obviously, these uncontrollable acts used to salvage relationship do not work. They only cause other person to retaliate in disgust making situation even worse.

So how do you deal with jealousy? That is big question. For insanely jealous person, best thing you can do is recognize that your jealousy may be unfounded and then open lines of communication. Instead of brooding on thoughts of infidelity, simply tell your lover how you are feeling as soon as you start feeling that way. You should have these feelings immediately put to ease when he or she calms your heart. You also need to stop trying to forcibly fuse your relationship into one being. The best relationships are created through bonding of two separate individuals. If you are dealing with a jealous person whom you want to stay with and love, then you are going to have to learn not to get drawn in to these petty jealousy arguments, do not retaliate, do not take any blame, do not let freak outs get to you when they occur and do not assume that he or she will change any time soon. To help get rid of jealous behavior you must leave all of your doors open. Meaning, you must not keep anything hidden or locked away for your love to get suspicious or distrusting over. Couples therapy, although expensive, is a viable option.

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