Somewhere deep inside me said now i can move on and not care if im dumped a second time. He said also that if he suspects me of doing it - he'll do it as well. That could be same with me, but in terms of scoring points I have scored alot more!!

I feel bad all time, everytime I look at his cute face and with every part of my body reaches out to him in search of love and hugs. He hasnt got his emotions ready and so Im deprived of hugs that I cherish so much... I feel worthless and lonely cause he's distancing himself from me as much as he can - he's aquiring space he can, whilst were in out repair stage!!

Will it last? Im sure it will on my behalf. Infedelity makes relationships stronger appreantly, but does my version of cheating make us stronger... time is a healer I believe in it.

If you've cheated, you can decide to keep it a secret, or live in fear that they will bump into them in street and everything will be thrown out window. Best advice, we've only got a few years in our lives, and we dont live forever, so to stop heart ache later on in life when your older, be honest and be prepared for worst. Then afterwards when they dont want you - go have fun, BUT if they want you back then work on it so hard so it gets super strong that no one can ever break it up again!

Trust plays a big part in this version, make sure trust is first thing that you get sorted out of all this - its a must.

Please share you versions on here, writing about it helps and makes you reliase what you should have said or what you shouldnt have said...

Cheating if not intended makes you stronger to understand relationships better, but if cheating was planned then you will never get to understand anything about who you are...

Being single is only way forward, but who wants to be single??? Not me! x

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