If you long for a partner who is wholeheartedly behind you, ask yourself, are you same partner? Do you give what you seek in your relationship? Ironically, many lack qualities they seek in their partners. Listen to your heart and when it feels right, feel fear and love anyway. Love without hesitation and with all you heart. Don’t let your fear of rejection or getting hurt kill your desires or steal your dreams. You may have stared in face of love before. Maybe you “chickened-out.” Next time, don’t be a chicken!

Love is choice and if you choose it wholeheartedly, you are never going to lose it. Love teaches you to become a better human being. Restore your faith in love and become emotionally available to each other. Put your fears and your past behind you. Become lovable by being loving. Learn to trust by trusting yourself. Here is number one reason for losing yourself in a relationship: Your belief that love is something you either deserve or not! This misguided belief leads you to do almost anything to get love and even more to hold onto it:

·You modify your identity to gain approval from your partner. ·You hold back intimacy to protect yourself. ·You have a need to manipulate your partner.

If you can believe that there is nothing ypu have to be or do to earn love, you will accept that:

·You can be loved even if you are not perfect ·You can be loved while keeping your course in life ·You can be loved without getting lost in love

Love is most powerful human lesson you will ever learn. It is a purposeful interdependence through which you become so much more than on your own. Love is not something to be found, rather it is in you to share, you can love wholeheartedly. Don’t turn your back on love every time it touches you, because when you give up on love you give up on yourself.

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When choosing color of your paintballs, it is necessary to consider playing environment. If you are playing in woods, bright colors may be preferred, as it is easier to see paint. Some paintballs glow in dark. If you are playing at night, this may be what you want.

A few brands of paintballs that are made for cold weather playing. They are designed for better performance during winter months.

Occasionally, paintballs will break inside barrel of your gun. If this is happening on a regular basis, there may be a problem. It could be gun. You may have your velocity set to high. The ideal setting for your guns velocity is about 280. You may also bust balls in barrel if you do not keep it clean. Having too much oil or not enough oil in barrel can also cause paintballs to break. Often, too much air pressure, or uneven air pressure, can cause paintballs to break.

If problem is not gun, it is paintballs. The most common problem will be size of paintballs you are using. Try using a smaller size. Dirty paintballs can also cause them to break. If your paintball hits ground, do not use it in your gun. Take loss.

Cheaper paint breaks more often than quality paint. Old paint breaks more often than new paint. Extreme temperatures also have an effect on your paint. Unless your paint is especially made for cold temperatures, avoid using it or storing it in such conditions. High humidity can also cause problems, by weakening and warping paintballs. You should throw out paintballs that you have had for three or more months. Paint may also break if you are shooting gun faster than what your hopper can manage. This is called over shooting feed.

When storing your paintballs, keep this in mind. Higher quality paintballs last longer than low quality when kept in storage. You will need to store your paintballs in a dry area where temperature does not vary too much. Store paintballs in a sealed container or bag to keep dust and dirt out.

It is a good idea to purchase low quantities of different quality/brand/priced paintballs and try them out to see which one works best for you and your paintball gun.