You might be surprised down road somewhere, because letting a painful situation just work itself out can lead to much better things in your life eventually. I have experienced this personally, and I know that it is true. Honestly, I know that you hear this all time, but your life and how it plays out really does depend on how you approach it. If you see things as dark then they are. If you can learn to see difficult times as learning experiences, they lose a lot of their sting. If you can learn how to go with flow of life without struggling, you are a lot less likely to drown during rough spots.

This does NOT mean that you can approach all parts of your life this way. Remember, “…the courage to change things I can.” When you can discern what things need changing and what things need to be gone through without struggle, you have then learned one of most valuable lessons of life.

"And when night is cloudy, There is still a light that shines on me, Shine on until tomorrow, let it be." © Paul McCartney John Lennon

You're Not Just Whistling Dixie!

It is a lot better to shoot for stars and miss them half way, than to shoot for ceiling and miss it half way. There seems to be a direct relationship between how easy we can accomplish our goals, and mental power propelling motivation.

If you're not expending considerable energy to reach stars, then it ain't stars you're reaching for. You might as well be reaching for a clouded crystal ball, and reciting, twinkle twinkle little star, how I wonder what you are.

The stars don't give themselves easy to anyone. When you set your sights for stars, you will subconsciously increase amount of effort that you apply. You have too. The higher goal, more your reason will tell you to be objective and honest with yourself. It will become mandatory that you expend enough effort to move your mountain.

So, you will set a series of steps that have to be reached in order to go to next level or higher position. Goals are never reached, no matter how high or low, in one step. And, each level that we find ourselves having reached, we gain a little more confidence and head for next level.

Get A Move On!

Ask yourself this question. Where will you be and what will you be doing ten years from now if you keep doing what you are doing right now? This is importance of setting a deadline for goal. When you write your goal, you will specify time limit for achieving it. This gives finality to it.

Keep this in mind. Always be aggressive in asking life for more than what you really want. Ask for more than what you think you're worth. Why should I do that? Because, people have a tendency to meet demands and expectations that are placed upon them within their time constraints. Waiting With Baited Breath!

After you rise to occasion and present prize to yourself, then next time you set out to accomplish a goal, you will be mentally prepared to grab whole enchilada, take a licking and keep on ticking.

It will be very beneficial if you outline goal from beginning to end. Just don't try to answer every question at very beginning. This is sometimes not possible. We don't always know all answers when first starting out. This is why fear sometimes will hold us back. But, fear is never a friend to your goals. And, besides, devil you know is better than devil you don't.

Herein Lays Your Door Of Opportunity!

This is so important for you to take action on goal and start moving towards it one step at a time. And, keep moving and keep moving. It won't move closer to you unless you're moving closer to it. And, if you let pony die, ride is over.

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