Here is Some more interesting for u( GRAMO-SCIENCE) * Would have - past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen. * Should have - past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen (and implies guilt) * Could have - past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen, but person tries to take credit as if it did happen .( Eg. I just Couldn’t make it) * Might - It does nothing definite. It leaves options for your listener * Can't/Don't - These words force listener to focus on exactly opposite of what you want. This is a classic mistake that parents and coaches make without knowing damage of this linguistic error. Examples: -- Fatal phrase: 'Don't drop ball!' Likely result: Drops ball -- Better language: 'Catch ball!'

-- Toxic phrase: 'don't watch television.' Likely result: Watches more television. Better language: 'I read that too much television makes people stupid. You may find yourself turning that TV off and picking up one of those books more often!'

I hope u understood everything clearly and will use proper words next time, U can make ur Gene-X more wiser than u. Always remember improper words= Improper(TAHC=P) proper words= proper personality. Always speak much in less words. Use positive and right words and you’ll be unique and people likes and remembers Unique ones. This is how u can make habit of using right and +ve language, & u better know what habit makes(i.e. ur character). More stronger ur personality will brighten Genex. That is how : your words, way you speak, your vocabulary – is an secret aspect of your personality. See, this article has no end by analogies, Examples etc.

Pls.. read article on “Art of Criticism” for much more improvements.

Nilesh Gore.

I still remember that moment, and I still have that little red ribbon. When we graduated 13 years later, I stood on that stage and gave Valedictory address to that same group of students, none of whom even remembered that moment anymore. So, I told them about that little boy who had made a split-second decision that helping a friend up was more important than winning a blue ribbon. In my speech I told them that I wouldn’t tell which of guys sitting there on that stage was little boy although he was up there with me. I wouldn’t tell because in truth at one time or another all of them had been that little boy—helping me up when I fell, taking time out from their pursuit of their own goals to help a fellow person in need.

And I told them why I’ve kept that ribbon. You see to me, that ribbon is a reminder that you don’t have to be a winner in eyes of world to be a winner to those closest to you. The world may judge you a failure or a success, but those closest to you will know truth. That’s important to remember as we travel through this life.

You may not have a red ribbon to prove it, but I sincerely hope you have at least a few friends who remember you for taking time out from your pursuit of that blue ribbon to help them. I’m thinking those will be ones that really count—I know it’s one that counted most to me.

Copyright Staci Stallings 2003