Hidden secrets of your personalityWritten by Nilesh B Gore
|| Hidden Secret of your personality ||By Nilesh Gore : ng411002@rediffmail.com Have you ever thought – your personality will be judged by “how words you use” ? Have you Ever thought – “Your words can affect hereditary process”? You will come to know most exclusive facts about yourself….. go ahead. TAHC=P cycle >> it is stand for :- Thought > Action > Habit > Character = Personality. As thought generated by mind- It commands to do an Action – An loop of action makes Habit- Continuous use of habit make changes in Character of us and character seems in form of personality. Mind is very mystic and provide two way programming for brain, Our thought are controlled by listening, writing, speaking. Our personality has power to affect next more than 100 generations by process of hereditary. Now our vocabulary, it plays very Imp role in life. The words we speak shows personality of a person. As I told before that mind provide two way programming that is our way of processing thoughts are controlled way we speak & then THAC cycle shows its color. An Imp fact 4u that :- Words (vocabulary) are tools, Speaking/talking is process to use that tools, better use of tools best result. Now understand it scientifically > talking/speaking is a PSYCHO-NURAL-MUSCULAR activity which is a help-bridge and integrate conscious and subconscious mind to distills- crystallize & clarifies thoughts(THAC=P). The person who speak blunt always uses blunt words, in-fact persons mind gives command (subconsciously) to use blunt words. There are synonyms and Antonym, Positive and negative. Listen, there is no much explanation how we use words but following example will make understand everything. I just want to say that Vocabulary can be toxic if we use words in a improper way. Egs. Don’t Fall Bowl >> Hold Bowl Tight. (Now imagine child is playing with bowl and suddenly her mom(elder) sees so and says “Don’t Fall Bowl “ child thinks mom is saying so because bowl is just about to fall and over a period of time he does so. The proper way was “Hold Bowl Tight” , here child thinks a little carelessness will result in broken pieces so he holds tight. ) As far as parents concern to change child’s destiny apart form other aspect- parents vocabulary must be very positive-influencing & strong. I’m Stubborn, I’m Stupid, I’m duffer, I Could, I couldn’t. and so on. Habit of speaking such words makes people so. Listen, it is very Interesting now, if a child did not received /listen proper words during childhood it is very difficult for such child to develop an +ve language. (few peoples who has high self-esteem are exceptional) Eg >>>> during childhood, if parents are saying “you are useless” / “silly”/ “Can’t do a tiny work properly” and so on. After childhood child thinks that my parents are right I’m “silly” and he(Subconscious) always acts in that way, coz he knows whatever he going to do will be termed as “silly”. & develops such habits. Only self-Motivated peoples are exception about this. Eg>>>>>>>>> See difference how person will act if choose betn A & B A1] I’m very weak in maths B1] I’m building my maths A1] don’t make mistakes B1] do it in right way. A2] Don’t drive fast B2] Drive Safe. A3] never join bad company B3] Choose right peoples See difference between A1 & B1. person who programs himself by saying (a1) “I’m very weak in maths” will always have poor results in maths. In case of b1 - his mind keeps him reducing mistakes & keeps building ability. I hope now u have got an idea to use words properly i.e. “Mind your Language”
| | The Red RibbonWritten by Staci Stallings
Everyone wants a blue ribbon. Blue. First place. The best. Even kindergarteners want that blue ribbon. In sports, I was never a blue-ribbon person. In a race I was always last. In baseball I was as likely to get hit on head as to drop ball. In basketball I was fine as long as there weren’t nine other players on court with me. Where I got my horrible sports ability, I don’t know, but I got it. And I got it early.During spring of my kindergarten year, our class had a fieldtrip to a park in a town about 20 miles away. Making that drive now is no big deal, but when you’re six and you’ve lived in a town of 300 all your life, going to a town of a couple thousand is a very big deal. Nonetheless, looking back now, I don’t remember much of that day. I’m sure we ate our little sack lunches, played on swings, slid down slide—typical six-year-old stuff. Then it was time for races. However, these were no ordinary races. Some parent had come up with idea to have picnic kind of races, like pass potato under your neck and hold an egg on a spoon while you run to other side. I don’t remember too much about these, but there was one race that will forever be lodged in my memory—the three-legged race. The parents decided not to use potato sacks for this particular race. Instead, they tied our feet together. One lucky little boy got me for a partner. Now what you have to know about this little boy is that he was second most athletic boy in our class. I’m sure he knew he was in trouble second they laced his foot to mine. As for me, I was mortified. This guy was a winner. He almost always won, and I knew that, with me, he didn’t have a chance. However, apparently he didn’t realize that as deeply as I did at time. He laced his arm with mine, gun sounded, and we were off to other side. Couples were falling and stumbling all around us, but we stayed on our feet and made it to other side. Unbelievably when we turned around and headed back for home, we were in lead! Only one other couple even had a chance, and they were a good several yards behind us. Then only feet from finish line, disaster struck. I tripped and fell. We were close enough that my partner could have easily dragged me across finish line and won. He could have, but he didn’t. Instead, he stopped, reached down, and helped me up—just as other couple crossed finish line.
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