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If time and finances permit, take your child on a trip to visit your new city and home to get acquainted. If that's not possible, get on
Internet, and show him or her
city, neighborhood, and home where you'll be living. Most cities have Web sites available that offer a wide range of information, so you can plan activities for after your move, such as visits to
theater, a visit to
local zoo, or a trip to a local restaurant that serves your child's favorite food.
Allowing your children to participate as much as possible makes
time they spend anticipating
move pass more quickly. Keep them occupied by letting them plan and pack a box or two of their special things. Consider their input on new decor and
layout of their new rooms. Encourage them to take
time to exchange good-byes with friends and loved ones and get addresses, e-mail addresses, and phone numbers to stay in touch.
While you are preparing for
move, try to stick as closely to your normal routine as possible, and let your children know that, although they will soon live in a new house,
rules of
household will still be
same. Bedtime is still at 9 p.m., and homework must still completed before TV time is allowed. And although Mom and Dad are a little busier and distracted with
move, they love their children very much and are giving
entire household a new opportunity to grow.
On moving day, have a bag packed of personal belongings for each member of
family, being careful to include medications, clothes, and personal items. Let your children choose what amusements and favorite "loveys" they wish to take along, and reassure them they will see their other favorite toys when they arrive in their new home.
Your preparedness will go a long way in reassuring your children that their needs are being considered.

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