HOW TO ACHIEVE TRUE HAPPINESS:Written by OSORO P. J. NYAWANGAH
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*NEGATIVE THOUGHTS: This kill, like HIV/AIDS, negative thinking is a killer; it affects mind, body and emotions. Your thoughts create your physical reality. If you donít get rid of negative thoughts, expect negative results such as withholding, dislike, poverty, poor image, unhappiness and misery. *EDUCATION: This like ocean, it has no end. Educate yourself and be armed with knowledge. Learning is lifelong experience; get it from older people or those who have succeeded and ahead in game of life. Read books, newspapers, watch TV, Internet etc. You still have time for this since itís key to good life. *CARING ONESELF: Love yourself and take care of your body; you live once and for good! Make sure you care for your self if you want to live a long and fulfilling life. It is your own task; no one else can do it for you mind your diet, hygiene and exercise for your physical and mental fitness. Feel and look good by working on your body. Laugh so as to make all kinds of wonderful things happen to benefit your body and mind. Get yourself at ease and be relaxed; more relaxed less pain you feel. *CREATIVITY: Life itself is creation, so this is best time for you to create whatever creative nature you instead for. Work hard and be contented with your work. Build your family by working hard. Choose a paying and legal carrier, enjoy your work and make sure you are not enslaving your self for working for sake of money. *COMPLIMENTS: Pay full attention to people with huge egos. They always have strong desire for recognition; yet have little concern for those around. They do not give compliments but thrive for! You should realize that itís healthy to acknowledge a work well alone. Have a self-respect and integrity and keep your word. Cure all kinds of disease affecting your happiness and harvest best results such as love, caring, good health and success in you life. This relies on your self-ACT NOW.
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PEOPLE DO NOT LIKE YOU?Written by OSORO P. J. NYAWANGAH
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*CARING ATTITUDE: To attract other you have to care about them and when doing so, you set aside your own experience. Be with them in a merry time and hard times. *BOOST THEIR EGO: The ego, being essence of our personalities, is sacred to us. In every person there is a strong wish of self-importance. If you deflate anybody ego, means that you donít respect him or her. And you will be showing high esteem to him or her by elevating his or her feeling of person worth. *TALKING ABOUT ONE SELF-: Avoid talking about yourself, keeping yourself as a true reference. Because people who talk too much of themselves rarely laugh of themselves; since they are so worried about impressive they are creating. Such people are neither honest nor attentive. *INTERESTING PERSON: People would like to be with you and get something of stimulating value from their association with you by cultivating yourself quality of being interesting. Holding other attention is of much value. *FLEXIBILITY: Willingness to change is of more importance in order to get people like you. If you are not a comfortable type, it is necessary to study your personality with a view to remove aware and unaware elements of strains which yourself and make changes to build satisfactory relationship. This can only happen if you are ready to make efforts. *HELPING HAND: Have a helping hand. If you have something to give people that will help them to be stronger and meet life more effectively, then give it. But do not expect return; donít give it as bribery or like most politicians who give it for vote! Give yourself an effective change according to this simple technique and you will get people to like you since one of deepest need of human beings is desire to be appreciated.
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