From Striving To Thriving

Written by Helaine Iris


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Are you striving or are you thriving? How would your life be different if you could make this profound mental shift?

Here’srepparttar process my client used to makerepparttar 123380 shift in her life, why not give it a try?

1. She called for a “time out”. She put her life on pause for a moment and reflected. She became aware that despiterepparttar 123381 apparent forward movement in her life, there was still something out of balance. She was tired of feeling stressed. She acknowledged what she was feeling and began to verbalize it.

2. She let herself imagine what it might be like to be thriving in her life instead of struggling. She detailedrepparttar 123382 various areas of her life and painted a clear picture of what her life would be like next year at this time.

3. Then she reassessed her projects: what she did want to take forward with her, and what did she need to let go of in order to prioritize her time according to her values and purpose?

4. Next, she looked atrepparttar 123383 tasks she thought she “had” to do to succeed versus what she “wanted” to do. Much to her surprise, she found they wererepparttar 123384 same tasks; with this reframe, she realized she likedrepparttar 123385 tasks as they were an essential part of her professional expression.

5. Finally, she resumed her activities and strategies, but this time with a very different outlook. She now approached her same life and tasks with a renewed sense of excitement and focus.

Today, she’s thriving. Her energy has increased and her stress level has decreased. Now, she has a bigger problem, business is rolling in. It’s a pretty great problem to have.

It’s YOUR life…imaginerepparttar 123386 possibilities!



~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Helaine Iris is a certified Life Coach, writer and teacher that loves her life. She works with individuals, and self-employed professionals, who want to thrive in their business while crafting a life that's in absolute alignment with their highest ideals, deepest values. For a solution focused complimentary session visit her website http://www.pathofpurpose.com or call her 603-357-8546 or email her helaine@pathofpurpose.com


Searching for a Job? Use Your Time to Build Professional Resources

Written by Elizabeth Kirwin


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Another effective strategy is partnering with a mentor or coach. “This person should be candid with you about what doesn’t work and what you don’t do well. A good mentor will also emphasize what is likeable about you and where your talents exist,” offered Mr. Hall. Mentoring and coaching are a focused way to grow professionally. “Try to find somebody who is inrepparttar trenches working in your profession,” recommended Mr. Hall. “Work with this person to help develop skills or approaches you may be lacking,” he added. Paying for a coach is one route, but it may not be an option for those on a tight budget. Look for coaches or mentors among an existing network of friends and associates, or through a friend of a friend. Aim to work with a professional who you admire and respect. Combining all or some ofrepparttar 123379 above techniques will help most jobless individuals gain a new perspective on their search for employment. Some of these methods will also expand their network once they re-enter their chosen profession. In an age when computers offerrepparttar 123380 jobless more access, it is still important to rememberrepparttar 123381 advantages of face-to-face contact.

Elizabeth Kirwin is a freelance writer and educator based in Asheville, North Carolina. Her articles have appeared nationally in magazines and newspapers.


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