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Ask How. Understanding without action is like a boat without oars. Asking “how” is
step of creating a plan to transform
“what” and “why” of our intentions into concrete reality. In considering “how”, acknowledge what will be different. By saying “yes” to this action of exercising more consistently, what am I willing to say “no” to? Be honest about what
commitment to “yes” means; maybe it is less sleeping in, leaving work early or just giving up making excuses. Ask yourself what action you can do that will you will most likely be successful with. A dramatic change in action is not highly sustainable. What are small, simple steps? This might mean letting go of all
rules you hold for yourself about what an effective exercise program is. Instead of giving up when faced with an unpredictable schedule, exercise 10 minutes one day, an hour
next, 35 minutes
next day and so on- take what you can get and create a plan that supports your success. The perspective of continuous, small successes, however you get them, is much more effective for long-term change than satisfying
self-imposed “rules”.
In additional to asking what, why and how, these are other considerations to creating and sustaining successful change:
•Change can be threatening as well as enlightening. One of
difficult aspects of change that is
fear some have that higher expectations will demand more of them than they can give. Stay curious with this and know that most of us are living from a very small part of our actual potential. •Get comfortable with
idea of failure; progress often takes
form of one step forward, two steps backwards. Failure can become an excuse to quit. Acknowledge when failure creates a setback but actively decide how much you are willing to let it impact you. •Find ways to enjoy and engage in
change you want; accept that it is an ongoing process without a true endpoint. •Create structures to remind you of
personal values you are supporting with
change. These might be photographs, quotes, art, or journaling – anything that is a physical reminder of why you are committed. •Notice
internal dialogues that limit your success. These might take
form of “I don’t have time for this”, “this is not working”, and “I’ll do it later”. Writing them down can help you determine what truth or value, if any, that they hold.
Change is an inevitable; and is
means by which we grow and evolve as humans. We can choose to let change happen to us, or can create it for ourselves. By asking what we want, why it is important and how to make it happen we take responsibility for
change that brings excitement, possibility and new realities to life.

Sarah Kennedy, MS, CPCC coaches people who know what to do to live healthier but struggle to stay committed to the process. She has ten years experience in the fitness industry as a personal trainer, lifestyle modification mentor, eating management program coordinator and certified life coach.Complimentary sample sessions are available for people who are curious about how to create positive change in their lives.