The more difficult your definition of success is to attain, more fear you will attach to it. Don’t let your own definitions limit you. Or even worse, definitions of others. Create your own definitions to make it harder to feel like a failure and easier to feel like a success. That way you will attach less fear to what you want in life. What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail? Image what you can do in your life with that type of belief system. Try thinking of every ‘failure’ as a success. That is, every time you ‘fail’ at something, you have really succeeded because you have learned what does not work. Therefore, you are closer to succeeding next time you try. Remember that past does not equal future. Yesterday’s failure does not equal your future outcomes. Just because you may have failed yesterday, or even five minutes ago, it doesn’t mean you are going to fail again. Just learn from what you did wrong and change your approach. Don’t fear past. The past is what has taught you how to succeed in future. Be fearless!

- Glen Hopkins

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Here is Some more interesting for u( GRAMO-SCIENCE) * Would have - past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen. * Should have - past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen (and implies guilt) * Could have - past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen, but person tries to take credit as if it did happen .( Eg. I just Couldn’t make it) * Might - It does nothing definite. It leaves options for your listener * Can't/Don't - These words force listener to focus on exactly opposite of what you want. This is a classic mistake that parents and coaches make without knowing damage of this linguistic error. Examples: -- Fatal phrase: 'Don't drop ball!' Likely result: Drops ball -- Better language: 'Catch ball!'

-- Toxic phrase: 'don't watch television.' Likely result: Watches more television. Better language: 'I read that too much television makes people stupid. You may find yourself turning that TV off and picking up one of those books more often!'

I hope u understood everything clearly and will use proper words next time, U can make ur Gene-X more wiser than u. Always remember improper words= Improper(TAHC=P) proper words= proper personality. Always speak much in less words. Use positive and right words and you’ll be unique and people likes and remembers Unique ones. This is how u can make habit of using right and +ve language, & u better know what habit makes(i.e. ur character). More stronger ur personality will brighten Genex. That is how : your words, way you speak, your vocabulary – is an secret aspect of your personality. See, this article has no end by analogies, Examples etc.

Pls.. read article on “Art of Criticism” for much more improvements.

Nilesh Gore.