Double Your LivingWritten by David Wood
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I want you to be so uninhibited by thinking of others, that self expression becomes NORM for you! Is that too much to want? I don't think so. I want it for you. I also want it for myself. Question: Whatever level of LOVE, INTIMACY and PEACE you have now, WHAT WOULD IT TAKE TO DOUBLE IT!? And we know that's not going to happen today. We've had 30, 50 YEARS of conditioning. That won't happen today. But it can happen - in bursts, and continuously for life. So "How do I do that?" "How do I Double My Living - now, and for rest of my life?". Well, I will tell you best way I know. Two Actions to DOUBLE YOUR LIVING OPTION 1: Immerse Yourself in a Community which GROWS you. The quickest and most powerful way I know to do this, is to Do a Mind Blowing Course. Leave comfort zone and jump into what's beyond it. Surround yourself with people doing same thing. I personally recommend The Forum, run by Landmark Education. If you're close to a capital city, you might be lucky enough to have a center close by. I send all my friends, family and clients there, and no - I don't get commission or a toaster. I estimate 40% of people have clear life-changing experiences, 40% say they learned tools which make a big difference to their life, and 20% don't realize it until years later, or just can't hear information. If you do do this, PLEASE drop me a line and let me know how it went. OPTION 2: Find a Coach Now I want you to note something here. I'm a coach! One way I make a living is getting paid to move people forward in their lives. I don't MAKE A CENT from you doing course recommended above. And yet I'm actually saying if you're choosing between doing The Forum, and hiring a coach - then do The Forum. But if you're not up for that - if you don't work best in a group of 200, or if you've already done a bunch of courses and you're ready for personalized attention, then I recommend coaching. Coaches normally coach once a week by phone (or in person), and by email. Issues range from relationships to life/work balance to cleaning out your closets. If you would like to give coaching a shot, or find out more about it: Visit my site at Life Coaching Resource for information on coaching. David
David Wood is a Certified Life Coach. He helps coaches, consultants, speakers and trainers to build their businesses via his popular ebook at http://10SuperCoaches.com and his audio ebook at http://www.FirstFiftyClients.com. Get his new Free Download “50 Power Questions” and popular monthly ezine for clients and coaches (now over 15,000 subscribers) at: http://www.solutionbox.com/freedownload.htm
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The result? It felt incredibly freeing, creating a very safe space of honesty, and brought us even closer together. When you're willing to dig deep, find truth, and risk sharing it, you: - Create a possibility for true acceptance, and real love. - Increase your self expression, which feels great! - Get led to who you really are, and to what you really love/hate. - Grow, and find more truth, and grow, and find more truth, and grow... - Have nothing to hide - how freeing is that!? - Attract those people ready for, and looking for, you! - Lose people who drain you (i.e. upgrade!) - Give others a gift - something ~real~ - as opposed to something false. - Create a safe space for them to tell ~their~ truth! How Do I "Up" My Level of Truth-Telling? Dear risk-takers: There ARE risks associate with this practice. Particularly for those of us who like to stick to comfort zone, please note that ~anything~ can happen - both negative, and wonderfully positive - if you do following: a) Write down names of three people you would like to feel closer to - e.g. spouse, boss, employee, friend, you! b) Next to each name, write down at least one thing that's important to you, but you would feel uncomfortable or unsafe telling them. What have you been with-holding? c) Tell them. Setting up space: let them know this is NOT about them. It's not about anything they have done wrong. It's simply about you, how you feel, what works for you, and that you want to let them know where you are. (Tip: If it's something you don't need them to do anything about, let them know that!) d) Now, give them exactly same space! The room to share their with-holds with you. Ask them: "Is there anything you would feel uncomfortable telling me?" "Have I ever disappointed you?" (What a question!). Let them know they can say anything, and you'll simply hear it, putting all your reactions aside. (Tip: If you're not willing to put your stuff aside, don't do this! If you can't control it, leave room). Risk a little! David
David Wood is a Certified Life Coach. He helps coaches, consultants, speakers and trainers to build their businesses via his popular ebook at http://10SuperCoaches.com and his audio ebook at http://www.FirstFiftyClients.com. Get his new Free Download “50 Power Questions” and popular monthly ezine for clients and coaches (now over 15,000 subscribers) at: http://www.solutionbox.com/freedownload.htm
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