But, barring any decision to be a matador, every decision you've ever made out of fear was a minor accomplishment. Let that sink in. Think about it; when was last time you had a choice to make between something big and something small and you chose easy, small, route?

Easy As Pie!

You shied away from "big" hard looking difficult task because easy task looked like a piece of cake; a cinch. And what you were really doing was just looking for an easy quick victory. Let's face it, we've all done it because a victory always feels good and nobody is going to call us "dummy".

But raw hard facts are; unless we take on big challenge, we'll never really know if it would have been a victory too. In my own experience, I learned that big buildings were where most of discretionary money was and I never did find a big black bull in there. :>).

But, unless I had neutralized fear of "big" that was controlling me, I never would have found out that great successes and victories can come from doing what I was afraid to do, and going where I was afraid to go.

I Saw The Light!

So, what was it that neutralized fear? It was know-how! I didn't say "knowledge." There is a huge difference between knowledge and know-how. The difference is difference between success and failure.

You can have a head full of knowledge but with no know-how you will still fail. The word "know-how" does not just mean knowing how to do something. That's knowledge. Know-how means doing that "something," and, doing it right with skill and effectiveness.

When you have acquired know-how you will do that "something" right again and again. It will become a habit, and you'll do it naturally with ease and grace. There will not be any struggle; struggle is over. That's in past. You only gain know-how by "doing." The experience must be your very own.

You Don't Need To Know All The Answers!

To solve your problem or reach your goal, don't let fear of not knowing all answers in advance stop you. You will never know all answers until you start.

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Later in day a friend calls and invites Grace out to dinner at 9 p.m. Grace says no to dinner out because she ate out last night and doesn't want extra calories amoung other reasons that don't fit her "yes list". But then she says yes if her friend will come over to her house at 7 instead of 9 so she can have a healthier meal, be with her kids, get to bed early enough to not be tired at work and to live within her "yes list."

Do you get it? The point is that if your yes list has "start my own business" at top then you say no to anything that doesn't support it like too much television viewing, playing video games every day, joing a softball league, etc.

Once you make your "yes list" and then prioritize list you'll be in driver's seat as you drive through each day making choice after choice after choice. You'll be conscious about waht you want and you'll be doing what you need to do to get what you want. Your future mornings with mirror will see you smiling and thrilled with your life.

This way you won't end up at end of your life wondering "what if?" Even better, you won't be complaining about what you should've, could've or would've done. Instead you'll be basking in your accomplishments and living life you love.