Divorce Is Not A Good Idea Right Now

Written by Dr. Dorree Lynn


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If you and your partner find that you are in fact fighting more, or that nothing between you seems right, pay attention to whether it is your partner you suddenly can’t stand, or if you may be scape-goating them. Another possibility may be that you feel safe and well loved enough to let out your anger, frustration and helplessness aboutrepparttar state ofrepparttar 126304 world withrepparttar 126305 one person you can trust to not go away, even if you behave badly.

Do be careful. With so much hate floating around, takerepparttar 126306 time to love those who are close to you. It will help you get through what otherwise may be long days and lonely nights.

Life is too hard to do alone,

Dr. D.

Dorree Lynn, PH.D.



Dr. Dorree Lynn is co-founder of the Institute for the Advanced Study of Psychotherapy and a practicing clinician in New York and Washington, DC. Dr. Lynn served on the executive board of the American Academy of Psychotherapists and she is on the editorial board of their publication, Voices. She is also a regular columnist for the Washington, DC newspaper, The Georgetowner. Dr. Lynn is a noted speaker and well known on the lecture circuit.


One Person's Cross May Be Another Person's Salvation - Part 2

Written by Dr. Dorree Lynn


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Your parent, friends, children or spouse looks at you as if you really have "gone crazy" becauserepparttar same event holds no significant meaning for them. This difference is particularly true between women and men. There is some truth torepparttar 126303 cliché that women feel first and fix a problem second, while men solverepparttar 126304 problem without discussion. If a man keeps fixing when a woman wants to talk, she tends to find another, bigger problem to talk about. He fixes this one too. She explodes. He feels awful, as all he wanted to do was help. Or inrepparttar 126305 reverse situation, he wants to solve his issues alone and can’t understand why she is “bugging” him. Reacting differently is not necessarily a problem. Nevertheless, it is a good idea to consider whether you are simply listening to your own drum or whether you are not hearing a different rhythm. One can always benefit from learning new ways of coping.

Life is too hard to do alone,

Dr. D.

Dorree Lynn, PH.D.



Dr. Dorree Lynn is co-founder of the Institute for the Advanced Study of Psychotherapy and a practicing clinician in New York and Washington, DC. Dr. Lynn served on the executive board of the American Academy of Psychotherapists and she is on the editorial board of their publication, Voices. She is also a regular columnist for the Washington, DC newspaper, The Georgetowner. Dr. Lynn is a noted speaker and well known on the lecture circuit.


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