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6. How optimistic is this person ?
Optimism is facilitator of all EQ competencies. In addition, optimists live longer, enjoy better health, and accomplish more.
7. Are they intentional?
Intentionality, an EQ competency, is saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Also being accountable for motives behind your actions. If you have commitment to relationship, i.e., nobody's going to go away, you'll work through problems differently.
8. How resilient are they?
How do they manage adverse events and setbacks? Have they been able to grow through adversity, not just go through it?
9. How do you and your partner manage anger?
Successful couples soothe one another instead of agitating and escalating.
10. How balanced is their life?
Resilient people combine learning, work and leisure throughout their lifetime.
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