Think about somebody who is really confident and good with women maybe somebody like Will Smith in movie Hitch.

Now, take a look how he walks, how he sits, how he speaks... and how he gets VERY relaxed quickly in a situation that would make most guys very uncomfortable. He is calm, relaxed, commands attention, looks you in eyes and takes up space.

When I walk into a nightclub. I act as if I own place. I sit on chair and take up a ton of space. I’m spread out as much as possible My feet are up on table.

When I talk to somebody I get their attention first than I go into a relaxed body position. I’ve found that when I do this everybody is more responsive and interested in what I have to say. I can lead them very easily. This is because I'm comfortable and relaxed which I owe to my body language

Back then I was too young and cool (so, I though!) to be able to step out of my comfort zone and risk looking stupid in front of others.

But, these guys were able to stand up and follow their dreams. If you notice I said stand up because I suspect I was not only person thinking they were wasting their times. I can imagine that close relatives probably told them to concentrate on school, while friends or siblings probably mocked them.

They chased after their vision and did not stop until they made it. I suspect I was probably not ready for their music at time or they were simply in need of more professional training.

My perception of them has changed. Now I see them as role models. Every time I think of their story I feel inspire. I see all possibilities that life can be.

However, my purpose of sharing this information with you is so that you can too open your eyes and dare to take risks. Who knows? You might just make it!

Just give it a shot,

Kenia Morales