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How You Sound
Put special attention to your choice words, tone of voice, speed of speech and thought organization process. These usually matter more than
content of your speech. An articulately delivered speech will help you be branded as knowledgeable, confident and competent. Remember, how you sound comprises 90% of your credibility.
Take note of these common mistakes: couching statements as questions; using preambles; explaining; asking permission; apologizing; using minimizing words; using qualifiers; not answering
question; talking too fast;
inability to speak
language of your business; using nonwords; using touchy-feely language; sandwich-effect; speaking softly; speaking at a higher-than-natural pitch; trailing voice mails; failing to pause or reflect before responding.
How You Look
There is this common notion that “the best and
brightest are rewarded with promotions and choice assignments.” This is entirely wrong. Those who are competent enough, sound and look good are
ones who move forward in their careers. Statistically, research shows that 55% of your credibility comes from how you look; 38% from how you sound; and, only 7% from what you actually say.
Carry yourself properly by avoiding these mistakes: smiling inappropriately; taking up too little space; using gestures inconsistent with your message; being over- or underanimated; tilting your head; wearing inappropriate makeup; wearing
wrong hairstyle; dressing inappropriately; sitting on your foot; grooming in public; sitting in meetings with your hands under
table; wearing your reading glasses around your neck; accessorizing too much; and, failing to maintain eye contact;
How You Respond It is important to know how to respond to
ways others treat you. And some of
common pitfalls women do as a response to a certain gesture are as follows:
Internalizing messages; believing others know more than you; taking notes, getting coffee, and making copies; tolerating inappropriate behavior; exhibiting too much patience; accepting dead-end assignments; putting
needs of others before your own; denying your power; allowing yourself to be
scapegoat; accepting fait accompli (irreversible or predetermined decisions); permitting others' mistakes to inconvenience you; being
last to speak; playing
gender card; tolerating sexual harassment; and, crying.
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