Accepting Your HealingWritten by Martin Brofman, PhD
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It is important, then, to have in your consciousness a picture of final positive result that you are working toward, as a reminder of your goal. When you are receiving a healing, optimally it should be with expectancy of being healed. At very least, it must not be with disbelief and resistance, which stop process. You do not have to believe in method or system, but you must remain open to possibility of it working for you. If you do believe in healing, then during healing you can remind yourself that your healing is happening now. After healing has happened, you can see whether results are partial or total, so far. Sometimes, full effects of healing are immediately apparent, although often there are continuing positive effects that manifest during days or weeks following healing act. When healing is total, and no symptoms are experienced, know that you are healed, and just get on with rest of your life. When full effects of healing have not yet been experienced, it is important to continue to remind yourself that healing has happened, and that effects are on way. Rather than continuing to see yourself in your old bubble, see yourself in your new bubble, one you are moving toward. See yourself healed, in future. In changing your bubble, or moving from any one reality to any other, there are three steps: 1. Decide what will be true in new reality. For example, you can decide, “In new reality, when healing is complete, pain will be gone,” or “Reading will be easier,” or “The tumor will be gone.” 2. Encourage perception that it’s happening now. While it’s true that you are moving toward some goal in future, and holding perception of success at some point in future, process of reinforcement must happen in present moment. The idea is to examine your perceptions of what is happening now, in moment of experience. “The pain now is less than it was before. The healing must be happening now,” or “The letters I see are a bit clearer now than before,” or “Perhaps tumor is actually a bit smaller now. Anyway, my consciousness feels more clear now, so I know that something positive is happening.” Positive thinking is not self-deception. Even when there are highs and lows in experience of symptoms, it’s important to see that lows are where highs used to be, so that even on your current worst days, you feel better than you used to feel on your previous best days. In other words, even on days when symptoms are being experienced, it can be noticed that they are not so severe as before (when that is true), and you are thus able to hold a perception of a positive direction. The idea is to give yourself reasons to believe in process, while at same time, acknowledging what is true, on physical level. It is, after all, measurement on physical level that shows effects of work being done in consciousness. Each improvement in condition on physical level should be acknowledged, and owned, as evidence that healing is happening now. If conditions on physical level have been measured as continuing to deteriorate, it must be clear that something has not been working, so that steps can be taken to correct situation, and continue healing process. Even this necessary correction can be seen as part of healing, and in fact, it is. It brings person one step closer to final result of being healed. 3. Decide and know that now, it’s true. You continue encouragement process until you experience yourself symptom-free. When that happens, you must consider possibility that you may never again experience that symptom. When pain is gone, it may be gone for good. When you see clearly, you accept it as your new normal state. When healing is complete, you must see yourself as healed, and in that way, we say that you own healing. You identify state of consciousness you experience, and your view of world from that state of consciousness, as normal and usual for you, even if it is your new normal way of being. If symptom was evidenced on basis of medical tests, look forward to new tests that show you as free of those symptoms. After all, healed is healed, and on all levels. If tests show improvement, but not yet total results, know that you are moving in a positive direction, and that there is still a bit further to go. If you have been working on yourself, continue, accepting progress you have made thus far. If you have been working with others healing you, you can know that it was a partial healing, and that next one can take you further along, or be one that is last you will ever need. When you have feedback on physical level that shows effects of healing work you have been doing, accept it and trust it, and when you have a clean bill of health, find other things to do with your consciousness than correcting problems. Get creative, and set goals, watching them manifest, creating with tools you have learned to use, a life in which you are happy and fulfilled. In fact, you may consider sharing your success story with others. Many healers and teachers of healing have started on this path through necessity of healing themselves. Thus, when they share their stories, it is from their personal experience. That was way it worked for me. Perhaps it can work that way for you, too. Let everyone know that anything can be healed. (from Anything Can Be Healed, by Martin Brofman, Ph.D.)
A pioneer in spiritual healing, vision improvement, and exploring the nature of the body/mind interface, MARTIN BROFMAN is the author of the revolutionary book Anything Can Be Healed - a manual for the Body Mirror System of Healing, which he developed through his research and experience while healing himself of terminal illness in 1975. He and others he has trained present these healing tools worldwide. See his website at http://www.healer.ch.
| | WHEN – “MEN ARE FROM MARS AND WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS” – DOESN’T WORK!Written by Paul Barratt-Hassett
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If there were a clash between like individuals, let’s say two vampires, then interaction creates friction (just as two magnets would repel each other) until one of them gives up their energy and reverts to being either a victim or a sex maniac. Have you ever played with magnets? If you have, you would notice that if you bring two magnets together, like poles will repel each other, as if an invisible force is preventing them from connecting. And if you were to relax one of your hands that magnet would spin around and then they would clamp together. As you know, this is because magnets have a positive and a negative side and these attract each other. The cause of conflict. The same concept exists for human interaction – an invisible force is either forceful towards you or taking from you. To demonstrate this, following is a scenario that typically takes place in relationships. Often, when couples first fall in love, there is a lot of giving and sharing by both partners - giving affection, love and romance; sharing fears, secrets and even everyday events. But for some couples, after a period of time, this giving and sharing stops or slows down. Now focus of attention or energy starts to move from partner in relationship back to oneself. What then happens is a war of energy exchange between couple until one of partners gives up their energy (becomes a victim) and other stays in control (the leader or decision maker) and relationship continues running smoothly. Alternatively, if battle continues and both want to be decision makers, without agreement, things continue to get nasty and being around each other is not so much fun anymore. Forces are about give and take, follower and leader, controlled and controller. Some people like to be lead and guided through life and equally some prefer to be leaders. And in relationships - good ones that is - there is usually one partner who is leader and one who is follower. These types of couples clearly have good working relationships, energy exchange fits, there is no conflict, love is flowing and everyone is happy. Until such time as follower becomes tired, fed up or even bored with being follower; being one who has to sacrifice constantly. What happens then? The conflict of energy exchange begins and this is often when relationships go bad. Fights happen more frequently and love stops flowing, thus energy exchange changes. Often energy drops from love down into anger, hate or regret, and many couples go their separate ways at this point in a relationship. The many faces of love. Paul claims that all three types need love, just in different ways. A sex maniac needs to feel sexual pleasure to feel loved. A victim needs to feel worthy to feel loved. A vampire needs to feel important to feel loved. And with love comes understanding! ************************************************************************************** Resource Box: You have permission to use this article providing; you leave resource box intact, leave entire article unchanged including all links and Authors Details. You must also notify author via email as to where article is being used. Authors Details: E-mail: relatingwell@relatingwell.com Author’s URL: http://www.relatingwell.com Paul along with his partner Elise are running ‘the perfect relationship challenge’ where they are coaching couples, needing help in there relationships, from each major city onto road to better relationships. It is currently a free service and you can enter ‘the perfect relationship challenge’ on line at http://www.relatingwell.com **************************************************************************************
Paul along with his partner Elise are running ‘the perfect relationship challenge’ where they are coaching couples, needing help in there relationships, from each major city onto the road to better relationships. It is currently a free service and you can enter ‘the perfect relationship challenge’ on line at http://www.relatingwell.com
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