Your guide to buying and wearing a Corset

Written by Miss Kensington

Buying a corset will do wonders for your sex appeal. Please remember that you need to have a figure if you are too over weight you wont getrepparttar same look. I am size 36, 34, 40 and I can look good! I would start with a black satin number and once you have your confidence start to go for other colours and styles. Personally i have 8 corsets, and each one makes me feel curvy and sexy.

Invest in a corset this should not be a one time, one wear purchase, you will look to pay between $150 and $300 which should last you a lifetime. My favourite corset retailer is Agent Provocateur however there are many online channels to purchase use our search function onrepparttar 122040 top right hand of this page and typerepparttar 122041 word "corset" to get corset related search results.

Overrepparttar 122042 years I have perfected lacing my own corsets, however you will need some help at first but here are a few tips;

Loosenrepparttar 122043 lacing atrepparttar 122044 back ofrepparttar 122045 corset to achieve an even gap of approx 4 inches from top to bottoms.

Make sure allrepparttar 122046 hooks are undone onrepparttar 122047 front ofrepparttar 122048 corset and placerepparttar 122049 corset around your body sorepparttar 122050 lace is behind andrepparttar 122051 fastens/hooks are atrepparttar 122052 front.

You should now haverepparttar 122053 lace hanging down either side e.g. left behind and right behind.

Fastenrepparttar 122054 front of you corset, it should still be loose since you have not tightenedrepparttar 122055 lace from behind. Once fastened pullrepparttar 122056 left and right lace from behind, pull it together slowly to avoid damage torepparttar 122057 corset boning.

Seven Valentine’s Day Tips for Spouses in “Less-Than-Perfect” Marriages

Written by Nancy J. Wasson, Ph.D.

Valentine’s Day can be a depressing day when you’re in an unhappy or shaky marriage. In every store or advertisement you see romantic cards, heart-shaped boxes of candy, or select jewelry forrepparttar special lover’s day.

Restaurants publish their special menus in advance and give food items names such as “lover’s delight chocolate dessert.” Radio stations sponsor contests focused aroundrepparttar 122039 theme of Valentine’s Day, and newspapers run pictures and stories about spouses with long marriages. Everywhere you turn, you are bombarded with pictures and stories of happy lovers.

What can you do to survive Valentine’s Day when you are worried sick that your marriage is onrepparttar 122040 rocks? How do you deal with allrepparttar 122041 love hoopla when your spouse doesn’t know if he or she really loves you or wants to stay married?

The following seven tips will help you to keep your perspective and sanity:

1. Be your own valentine this year and celebraterepparttar 122042 wonderful person that you are. Make an appointment to have a massage or pedicure on Valentine’s Day as a present to yourself. Or make plans with a friend to dine at a gourmet restaurant either on Valentine’s Day orrepparttar 122043 day before. Buy yourself a new CD or book that you’ve been wanting. Leave work early, if possible, and do something fun such as going to a movie inrepparttar 122044 middle ofrepparttar 122045 work afternoon.

2. Make a commitment to love yourself and to treat yourself with care and respect. Resolve to take good care of yourself by exercising, eating right, taking time to relax and see friends, and getting enough rest. Throw any martyr tendencies outrepparttar 122046 window and make your health and wellbeing a top priority. This is not being selfish. If you don’t nurture yourself first, you won’t be in any shape to give quality energy and time to your marriage.

3. Commit to being okay no matter what happens in your marriage. It’s essential that you make yourself a promise that you’ll have a quality life with or without your spouse. By showing respect for yourself and belief in your ability to thrive whether married or not, you’ll be coming from a place of empowerment and strength. The attributes of personal strength and confidence attract others and engender respect, making you a more desirable partner.

4. Accept uncertainty and see it as an opportunity to flex your faith muscles, build resiliency, and developrepparttar 122047 discipline to live inrepparttar 122048 present moment as much as possible. With practice, you can learn to curb your tendency to worry aboutrepparttar 122049 future and can expand more of your energy into makingrepparttar 122050 most ofrepparttar 122051 time you have now. Everyone has periods of time when everything is up inrepparttar 122052 air and how things will turn out is unknown. And as poet Walt Whitman reminds us, “The future is no more uncertain thanrepparttar 122053 present.”

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