What would happen if you knew yourself so well you could say with confidence, "No thank you, I prefer..."

How would you look at others, if you really understood that their choices are perfect for them?

The Law of Attraction teaches us to recognize our personal preferences by noticing how things feel and asking ourselves, "Which feels better? This or that?" When we take time to notice our feelings, we learn about ourselves in a way that leads to great personal freedom and happiness.

Before I learned about Law of Attraction and how I attract people, situations and opportunities in complete accord with my vibration (vibes), I tried to live by a set of standards or principles. I remember a time when I asked my pastor if he could give me a list of these principles so I could make sure I was living right way. I did everything I could to be perfect mother, dutiful housewife and selfless Christian. I thought that by conforming to what other people expected, I would become happy too. I was NOT a happy, joyful person. I was a person in great emotional and eventually physical, pain.

Clarity of your desires is one of most important steps in manifesting what you want. For some, this process may be difficult or frustrating. For others, process of getting clear about their vision comes easily. Here is a tool that will assist you with this process and support you in getting clear about what it is you desire.

The most helpful concept that I have discovered for myself over last few years has been concept spoken by Abraham-Hicks. This message teaches us to embrace contrast;a concept that took some time for me to understand. Clarity through contrast? You bet. How is it we can know what we do want without experiencing what we do not want (contrast)? It is through contrast that we experience what we don't want. Contrast is essential in supporting us to make a decision.