You are being noticed...Written by Harish Dhingra
Do you think that you are not being noticed?? If your answer is "Yes" then you are aboloutely wrong...Just don't ever think like this because you are always being noticed... It may be possible that you are working hard but not getting rewards for it right now but it does not mean that you are not being noticed. It may be a bit late for you to get rewards but you will definetely get rewards. You have so many reasons to work hard and not think negative even if you are not paid extra for it.
| | Enjoy the Journey, as there isn't a destinationWritten by Kerry-Ann Cox
Do you spend your time working towards that "one day when…."? One day, when I have enough money I will be happy. One day, when I have house paid off, I will be able to relax and enjoy myself more. One day, when I get a better job………. These may all seem like good destinations and desires. But when we live in this way we are 'future living'. Waiting to live life we have always wanted sometime in future. Unfortunately way our brains are wired can mean that we are as soon as we arrive at one destination it doesn't seem enough, somehow we are just not as satisfied as we thought we would be and we start going after next goal. Don't get me wrong - there is nothing wrong with setting goals and achieving them, but never think that any one goal, will be your ultimate destination, that will result in your ever lasting happiness and fulfilment. There will always be something more - something bigger, better, more powerful, faster etc. that we will desire. It is not only big things in life that we 'future live'. Most people spend their days getting things done so they can move on to next thing. We always have destinations that we have to get to. (They may be physical places we are trying to get to or tasks that we want to achieve). Often, we are not doing task at hand for its own sake, but for end result, so we can move on to something else. When we live in this way everything becomes a chore to be done and gotten out of way and whole time we are usually thinking about next chore on list. If we live in this way, one night we will wake up in a cold sweat wondering where our life has gone - why we feel so tired, alone and stressed. Was life really meant to be this hard? We ponder. What happened to all dreams and plans and energy I had when I was a teenager and thought I could conquer world and right all wrongs? Somehow it all got lost under a thick blanket of obligation, survival, getting by and striving but never arriving.
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