You Can’t Do That!Written by Kenia Morales
You can’t do that, does this phrase sound familiar? I am pretty sure you heard it before. Family and friends will tell you that when you communicate one of your life’s desires or dreams. You probably shared information expecting them to be happy about your new venture. But, guess what? The response you get is: You can’t do that, you are crazy, why don’t you do this instead etc.Phrases like those can be fatal for dreamer. Especially if dreamer admires person responding negatively; an individual can believe statement, get paralyze and will never even dare to go an extra mile. If you are thinking I am wrong and that family and friends are always supportive. Then go ahead, I encourage you to share one of your innermost desires. Some that you may have dug so deep because you think it is almost impossible. Therefore, you restrain from sharing it because you are afraid others will think you are crazy. See how some of them that truly believe in you might support you, others will tell you flat out: Do not waste your time dreaming, while others will be more subtle and say nothing but, you can still feel their negative energy.
| | “Your Most Important Opportunity,” says a top UK Personal Development Coach. Written by Jo Ball
For some people this article will turn out to be one of most important things they’ve ever read. I say this because some people are ready to get to grips with life. In next year some people will put their lives on map. They’ll know clearly what they intend to have happen and, more importantly, why. Do you want to be part of crowd making switch to dizzying heights of happiness – and when I talk about "happiness," I'm talking about real "Happiness"? Do you want to feel good after a fulfilling day at work? Do you want to live a dream relationship? Do you want you to be building wonderful bonds with your children, easily, and taking steps to reach your full potential as a human being? If you do, good news is this: change can be easy. Here is how… First, stop ignoring your instincts: that slumping feeling or that feeling of nausea or little voice in your head that says: 'I want more out of life than I'm getting.' Accept it as part of you and welcome that feeling. Is it telling you that you’re not being rewarded or is it saying you are not being fulfilled in work? Or is feeling hinting something else is not right – relationship with your partner or your children?
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