Seriously, you can. I am going to show you how you can do this. What you are about to discover is so easy and unique, everyone can do it. Our world would be better off.

If someone told you "You're getting fat", how would you react? If someone told you "You're getting gray," how would you react? Would you be hurt, angry, or make a joke of it?

You have a choice. You choose your behavior and how you react to other people's communications and behavior. It is your decision to use your personality positively or negatively. It is that decision that affects your relationships with everyone in your life. It can make or break your relationships.

We all have same personality traits. We are possessive, critical, impatient, tolerant, generous, selective, moody, skeptical, stubborn, adventurous, plus 58 other traits.

Generosity appears to be a nice trait to have, right? Not when it is used to extreme, then it becomes negative.

Let’s say you attend a music concert and are completely blown away by someone’s piano playing. You walk out of concert and say to yourself, “I would love to play piano like that, and move people in way I was moved”. Now, does fact that you cannot currently play piano mean you can never accomplish that desire?

The current truth about yourself is, you cannot play piano. But, what you believe about yourself will determine if that will remain your reality or if you will become an excellent pianist.

Do you know what people like Tony Robbins, Zig Ziggler, Og Mandino and Napoleon Hill have in common? They are all people from humble beginnings, they all had many set backs in life, and they all later became very successful. How did they do this? They learned to believe in themselves.

If you find in your current state that you are over weight, deep in debt, lonely, or unsuccessful in any area of your life, does that mean you are stuck in that reality? I don’t think so. I’m sure you’ve heard saying birds of a feather flock together. Well, negative people tend to hang out with other negative people, religious people tend to hang out with other religious people, and entrepreneurs tend to hang out with other entrepreneurs. Who do you hang out with? We all tend to gravitate toward people or groups of people that we believe to be like us, or people we would like to be like.